Apr 21, 2009 03:22
What the fuck is up with men? I swear, I am sick and tired of men (Hispanic men in particular) who are self-centered, egotistical, manipulative, paranoid freaks who believe that the second their significant other leaves the house, she is out there cheating and lying to him. I mean... seriously? What the fuck? What runs through their minds which would make them believe that. Yeah, there are a good number who lie about what they are doing. But there are still many who don't lie.
I've found myself in the same situation again and its a fucken pain in the ass which always pisses me off. It happened with my mother and her boyfriend, and now its happened with my cousin, Upi, and her husband.
My cousin comes over to my place to work on her assignments and for me to help her out on her reports, editing and all that crap. Well, she lets her husband know ahead of time and she comes over, and basically works on her assignments for hours. Well, today was one of those days. She came over and began working on her assignment for her Child Development class. It was taking her a while and that was alright. Well, when she left, it was around 1 a.m. However, just about 20 min ago, as I was sleeping, I recieved a phone call. I checked the caller ID and it was Upi. I answered and that's when she told me that her husband has been bitching to her about how he doesn't believe that she was at my place doing her work because he heard guys in the background. WTF?! Once again, similar situation which what happened with my mother and her boyfriend. My friend Loy was over and he came to the conclusion that my mother was cheating on him with Loy. Stupid idiot. Loy is fucken gay!!!
Anyways...
So Upi's husband is giving her a hard time over that and he doesn't believe her, bitching about it, and not letting her sleep. Now this is pissing me off, because she is pregnant with there first child and he's giving her this crap. This from the guy who numerous times has gone out and not returned all night? Please... give me a break. So, I tell her to pass me her husband. I swear, if he was here I would most likely have dogged him for being an idiot. There is no reason for my cousin to lie to him or to cheat on him. What is up with freaken Hispanic males? Is it a rule that they have to always be suspicious of their SO? Why do they have to be such paranoid freaks? Is it because they are the ones cheating on their SO but don't wanted to be the one cheated on?
Anyways, I told her husband over the phone that he shouldn't be doubting Upi since she either comes to my place to hang out or do her work. I also let him know that the guys who are at my place right now (they're asleep) happen to be gay. Yeah... like I said... repeat of the incident with my mother and her idiot of a boyfriend. Anyways, hopefully he gets it through his thick head that she isn't lying to him and that I wouldn't let her do something so stupid while at my place or anywhere for that matter. If he doesn't believe me or her, then he's an even bigger idiot that I thought.
Damn... It's 3:41 a.m. and I have to get up in a little while. There goes my sleep.
cousins,
relationships,
family,
men,
idiots