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[x_lost_cause_xx]

so i dont know what to really think anymore. i am so sick and tired of my dad and the way he treats me. but then again, am i the one who is just over reacting about everything? is he the one who is right? am i just beign a typical teen and being stubborn? i dont really know anymore. i mean i have the chance to go live with my grandma, and i really

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[bemyescape14]

Dads are a tough subject to talk about...My dad did the same thing to me, all my life. Ever since I started junior high, he was always telling me that if I kept up with my bad attitude and my "low" grades, that I would end up pretty bad too. He used to always make me feel so low, and it got to the point where he felt like a complete stranger to me..If we got into a fight, well him yelling at me is more like it, he would come into my room later and tell me that 10 years from now he didn't want me to look back and think "my dad didn't really teach me anything"..and I couldn't say I won't think that, when that's exactly how I felt.

I really don't know how everything changed, I guess since he moved to north carolina because of his work that things are a bit calmer, but I went through the same thing! He still gets disappointed when I have a low grade, or if I do something that isn't right, but I tell him I'll do better next time, that's all you really can do. Moving out would be something I would consider, but to your dad's point of view he might see it as being weak or not wanting to follow the rules of his house...So I don't think moving with your grandma is going to help, or it might depending on what your dad thinks.

Just try to get along with him, or talk to him about how you feel, it helps believe me. He'll take everything you say into consideration if you talk to him like an adult, thats what I used to do..

But I hope that helps, if you need to talk you know where to comment me lol. ♥

[x_lost_cause_xx]

wow. thank you so much <3