Jul 26, 2003 22:44
You know sometimes I wonder why people think that they have to worry about other peoples lives and the decisions they choose to make. To me it seems like if God wanted other people to make your decisions then he would have made you them and them you. I mean hello, dont people understand that each person has their own life to live. If one person cant make a decision on their own then they will ask for help.. but if they dont ask for help then dont bother giving them your input about it. Theres gonna be some point in everyones life where they have to make a life altering decision and a lot of people arent going to agree with the decision made, but thats a decision that you made and you are the only person that really matters when it comes to that decision. No one will get anywhere in life if they always listen to their peers when it comes a time to make a decision. I mean seriously people, why bother other people with childish assumptions when they make a decision that they are happy about and are ready to live with for the rest of their lives. No matter what age someone is, no matter how much education someone has, no matter how long they have known someone, none of that matters when it comes to a decision that makes them happy. Trust me, I know from personal experience that if you make your own decisions then life will be much easier. To explain my theory.. Me and Ricky started dating July 8, 2002.. I got pregnant September 7, 2002.. and he asked me to marry him on October 23, 2002.. we have had many obsticals thrown at us but we over came all of them. True love conquers all. So next time you find out that someone has a made a decision that you dont agree with just let it go and let them do what they feel is right. Life isnt life without making your own decisions and learning from your own mistakes.
ps- Cennet and Mike.. yall do what yall want to do no matter what anyone else thinks. Do what yall feel is right and show them that love conquers all. Love both of you;]