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[x_dig_me_x]

so i just had a three hour long AIM fight with my boyfriend because:

he doesnt understand why im not okay with him hanging out with his CRAZY ex girlfriend. who still loves him... three years later.

yeah. am i crazy for that not being alright?

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[denouement]

you're not crazy, i would flip out.

[x_dig_me_x]

good. because im still freaking out over it

he told me i could come wit him to hang out with her. i agreed to do so... but it wont be a good thing or end up in a very good manner. its never a good idea to invite your current girlfriend to hang out with you and your ex girlfriend.

i mean read that- that makes me look like a fool and an asshole and a fucking doormat. wow, what the fuck have i gotten myself into? this isnt me at all........ wow.

[denouement]

the way i see it... it doesn't really matter it it's 'okay' or 'valid' for you to feel the way that you do about this situation - the fact is, you feel this way. period. it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong for you to feel this way. what matters is that he understands and respects how you feel. what matters is how you talk about it.

[x_dig_me_x]

he doesnt though... at all. he got mad at me and turned it around on me... and made me feel like an ass for not being like "oh ok its totally cool for you to go see your ex girlfriend and then come visit me. ill make cookies for you guys!"

i tried to approach it in a manner that was mature and well thought out... but it didnt work.

[denouement]

if i were in your situation i would go crazy. i would be sure that they were fucking. especially since you mentioned above that he only saw her for sex before. who knows if that's really the case, and i should emphasize how jealous and paranoid i am by nature, but still. i'd be like "ciao!"

[sevenpenguins]

just two weeks ago, donnie told me that "we're having lunch with my ex tomorrow." i was like...um...ok. this is one ex that he is actually really good friends with and it made me absolutely paranoid and he said, "are you threatened by her?" i told him no, but i was. it actually turned out ok. her new boyfriend came along (along with her MOM AND her brother). i hope it all goes ok with you. she wants to hang out and go shopping with me now (?!)

it's a different situation with you though. just be yourself. guys don't understand us. period. they never will. and they wouldn't understand this situation, because i bet you that you haven't asked him to come visit your ex with him tagging along. i bet he might get upset. maybe. i don't know him well....
i'm blabbering....

[x_dig_me_x]

...wtf are wrong with guys?