Hey..I know u dont know me all that well. But I can honestly say I know what your going through. I guess im older and I know a little more. But the thing is, I went through this situation. I was dating someone, for a while. Things were completly perfect, as if perfect had never existed to me before. He was my everything...and I was his. We even talked about what it was gonna be like to get married, kids, etc. Then one day, it happened. He just broke up with me. No real explanation. All he could tell me was things had changed. It was almost as if he told me he loved me but wasnt in love with me. That night was a blur, but in the whole conversation, I remember the last thing he said to me that night. He said I still love you, and I said it was bull shit. I look back on it now, and I think he really did but he was right. Timing is a key part of a realtionship. I guess what im trying to tell you is, it may be for the best. If things are to work out for you two, it may be better to let time do what it must. Then again, there are tons of fish in the sea and its his loss if things dont work out. But i honestly know what ur going through. And it sucks. Its one of the worst kinds of hurting. If you ever need to talk, TRUST ME IVE BEEN THROUGH THE HURT AND HAD MY SHARE OF JERKS. lol.....just drop me a line hun!! *HUGS*
Aww, thanks Heather. I really appreciate your advice, especially since you've been through it before. It's just so difficult. I mean I could sit here and say that I feel everything is going to work out and that Dave and I will eventually end up together again, but the waiting part-that's what gets me! I hate waiting; I always have. But, I had prayed so many times and for so long that when I finally found Dave, I knew he was the one without any doubt in my mind. I know people say, "well, maybe he was mr. right now instead of mr. right." but I really don't think that's it. However, since we've broken up, I am beginning to realize that some time apart might benefit us more in the long run than I ever thought possible. Before, I couldn't imagine being without him, but now that it's been almost a week since he ended it I am starting to see that he has a lot of maturing to do before we can truly be a couple again. He needs to take some time and evaluate a lot of things, like how he shouldn't tell someone that he loves them if he's just "confused" all along about how he really feels. I know I love him and I will wait for him as long as it takes and I know that it won't be easy, but I'm going to keep praying and believing and someday I think we'll be together again. I know people think I'm crazy and everyone keeps telling me that I'll find someone else, but I don't want to find someone else. And believe me, I'll definitely ask you to lend an ear if I ever need to talk to someone seeing as how you know all about what I'm going through. But, thanks again, sweetie!
*HUGS*
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