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lets see...
im starting to feel uncomfortable.

yeahhh.....

also. i wanted to make a note of the fact that my conversations with Meghan always manage to incorporate this:
h0lidayfr0mreal (11:28:49 PM): haha mike's friends with him. he can hook you too up
SYMPH0NY0FSOUND (11:29:07 PM): ha thats ok i am uglyh0lidayfr0mreal (11:

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[aisle05]

Ugliness and beauty express appreciation, ugliness being the lack of appreciation. Having an appreciation for a person takes into account every aspect of a person, that's why their a sayings like "beauty is more than skin deep" or something to that effect. But i'm no fool, i know to a girl's ears something like that just says you don't look good. The beautiful thing about looks is that it's subjective. Everyone can have a different opinion on what constitutes good looks, brown hair/blonde hair, blue eyes/green eyes, 9-toes/10-toes, and no matter what there is gonna be someone out there who likes it.

A friend would never say another friend is ugly, people are friends because they appreciate who each other are, so it wouldn't make since for them to consider each other ugly. Friends are supposed to enable you to be comfortable with who you are, not enable you to delve into self-loathing.

If you want someone to tell you you're ugly then ask strangers. They won't have any idea who you are and will judge you based solely on appearance. If they make judgement they may call you ugly if your apperance does not agree with their preferences. But it doesn't mean anything, it's just an opinion. It would be like asking people if they like swiss cheese, that'd be pretty much what you were doing.

But whats the use on someone agreeing with you on being ugly? That's like agreeing to go to war, it's an agreement on something bad and no one wins.

It's sad that girls need to constantly say they're ugly, as you put it. Every girl is going to be beautiful to someone. For your sake i hope you find someone to let into your life that holds you as a model of perfection, skin to soul, that expressions an appreciation for you quite the opposite of ugliness.