Another late night post....Choices and Love
SO what should my topic for tonight be? Hmmmmmm......
I honestly have not a clue in the world.
Guess I'll just write what comes to mind.
Choices.
We all make them and sometimes they work out for the best and sometimes they don't.
Sometimes they make you smile and sometimes they still hurt years later.
Still they have to be made otherwise nothing will ever change.
If you're content with that and things just staying the same, good for you.
I'm not one of those people.
If you want things to change you have to take the risks involved with changed and just go full throttle ahead with it. I hate people who complain about their lives but yet never decide to do anything to change it. If you don't like something, take the steps to correct it and even if the result is bad, nothing stays bad for too long. Like the Death card in Tarot, it's a chance to begin again and what arises from that could be better than you had previously thought.
For me, being content with things isn't being happy, it's settling It just means you didn't want to try and make better for fear of getting worse. That's life people.
I've searched for my knight in shining armor before because no one made me feel that special way so I just kept trying and trying and I was ok with that. Every time I tried I kept getting closer and closer to what I wanted.
I was always searching for someone who wanted to be with me cause he couldn't imagine his life without me. Not cause I was there or because I was a rebound.
Someone who I care share my deepest thoughts and worries to.
Someone who I can count on for anything.
Someone who tells me I'm the most important thing to him.
Someone who I can grow with and not apart from.
Someone who who wants the same things I do.
Someone who loves me and is happy with just me.
IS that asking too much? is it? I don't think it is.
So many couples I see fall apart because either one is too stubborn, one is too cruel, one is cheating on the other, or they just can't bring themselves to say goodbye. All it takes is a little talking and listening to work things out, and compromise. But when that can't happen it's just something that is doomed from the beginning.
I honestly have not a clue in the world.
Guess I'll just write what comes to mind.
Choices.
We all make them and sometimes they work out for the best and sometimes they don't.
Sometimes they make you smile and sometimes they still hurt years later.
Still they have to be made otherwise nothing will ever change.
If you're content with that and things just staying the same, good for you.
I'm not one of those people.
If you want things to change you have to take the risks involved with changed and just go full throttle ahead with it. I hate people who complain about their lives but yet never decide to do anything to change it. If you don't like something, take the steps to correct it and even if the result is bad, nothing stays bad for too long. Like the Death card in Tarot, it's a chance to begin again and what arises from that could be better than you had previously thought.
For me, being content with things isn't being happy, it's settling It just means you didn't want to try and make better for fear of getting worse. That's life people.
I've searched for my knight in shining armor before because no one made me feel that special way so I just kept trying and trying and I was ok with that. Every time I tried I kept getting closer and closer to what I wanted.
I was always searching for someone who wanted to be with me cause he couldn't imagine his life without me. Not cause I was there or because I was a rebound.
Someone who I care share my deepest thoughts and worries to.
Someone who I can count on for anything.
Someone who tells me I'm the most important thing to him.
Someone who I can grow with and not apart from.
Someone who who wants the same things I do.
Someone who loves me and is happy with just me.
IS that asking too much? is it? I don't think it is.
So many couples I see fall apart because either one is too stubborn, one is too cruel, one is cheating on the other, or they just can't bring themselves to say goodbye. All it takes is a little talking and listening to work things out, and compromise. But when that can't happen it's just something that is doomed from the beginning.