Apr 30, 2008 23:59
well you know what. a friend shouldnt feel insecure around you. or feel they must rethink what they're about to say, not because it may be stupid because a friend shouldnt make one feel as if the are not worthy, but because they're analysing every posibility for the other to jump down their throat. and in saying what they want to say because it is their opinion and they have every right, they are taking a risk. not a risk of feeling stupid, or being proven wrong. but to have their word shut down by someone they respect. to have to put up with the hassle. i know what you always want to say thats the funny part. and i could say the same things to you. rather when i do i just get attacked right back. but im not the type to bash someones word or say most of the things you do. i think them but im nice enough to not make the perosn feel like shit. and if you can recognise that it bothers the person, dont tell them to calm down, or that you're joking. take the intelligence that i know you have apply it, analyse it as you do everything, realise the issue. then stop it. thats all. i wont turn my back on you. but i wont stare at yours.
i wont say anyting because i shouldnt have to in order for things to change. i simply will not be a part of your life if the "friendship" between us persists like this.