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This is a little something I found dealing with marriage. It kind of states the point of my reasoning that it's always bullshit when people say "oh you're too good of a friend for us to get together" and what ever other shit.
"The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends
before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each
other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their
worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept up
into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality."
Perhaps it's the opposing idea that's to blame for such high divorce rates in the country. That and maybe people feeling that holy matrimony can be like a buffet or something where you can try certain dishes, throw aside those if you don't like them and then go back to the line for something different. Am I wrong?
"The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends
before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each
other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their
worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept up
into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality."
Perhaps it's the opposing idea that's to blame for such high divorce rates in the country. That and maybe people feeling that holy matrimony can be like a buffet or something where you can try certain dishes, throw aside those if you don't like them and then go back to the line for something different. Am I wrong?