shit talking or not shit talking....that is the question...

[workinclaslass]

is it considered shit talking to warn a stranger that the person that "swept them off their feet" is a lying sack of shit that was sweeping me off of my feet (inadvertanly while the sweeping was going on, his penis landed inside of me as well)...i don't know this girl, but i came across her myspace page and well, slap in the face because the girl

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[4q]

I don't think it's considered shit talking. I mean you know she's not goingto listen to you, and in the end it's most likely not going to be worth it, but I would maybe just send her a little note, not calling him an asshole or anything like that, but maybe just saying she should be careful, and check around a little bit and really find out what he's about before she falls too hard. I dunno?!

Who are all these people you always talk about!?!

[workinclaslass]

either she will listen, or be a complete bitch about it...gah...

[4q]

exactly. My guess is be a complete bitch. I prolly would be. No one wants to hear shit talked on their man they think is so awesome.

I would just try and do it in a straight forward and honest way, and although you are angry with him or whatever, I wouldn't try and talk shit on him, and call him names and shit. I would be more likely to listen to someone who presented their story calmly.

[workinclaslass]

oh no no, i'd be an adult about it..

[4q]

okie good then. well I know you would be, I don't know sometimes I let my anger get the better of me, so this is what I was trying to say.

But you are right I would want to know as well.

[workinclaslass]

SHE'S ON YOUR MYSPACE..it's Jabs!!!! she's dating tony!!!

[4q]

oh wow! eek! that's a bit scary...but yes I am friends with her. I am supposed to see her when I go to Toronto...

[workinclaslass]

well...after some lenghty talkz...it's not my place...if you;re friends with her and you want to warn her, by all means...i'd be happy to talk to her...but...i won't persue it

[4q]

I can do that because I know that she's deep into it. Can you email (or direct me to an lj entry that details) the whole story just so I know exactly what went down because I don't think I would know where to start exactly.

[workinclaslass]

here's the deal in a nutshell...tony and i started talking at the begining of december..."swept eachother off one another's feet"...had every intention of meeting and being TOGETHER...went away together to baltimore to visit my girl kerry, her man, her friends and tony's best friend soundcheck came too (this was jan.7th)....we speant the weekend TOGETHER, i thought as a couple...came home on a monday, had the full blown flu, aparently the distance was too much, we weren't TOGETHER, he tricked me, and everyone else that was with us that weekend, into thinking that we were TOGETHER in order to get a piece of ass..i called him out on his shit and that was the end of our torrid little love affair...according to her LJ, she was "in love" with him just about the time that we ended what we had...me being sherlock mother fuckin' holmes deduced that in order to be "in love" they had to been talking the entire time him and i were

[4q]

wow, okie. That's crazy, so where is he from?

[workinclaslass]

from under a fucking rock....or south carolina