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Am starting to learn why I'm always told to not get involved with women from online, and I always seem to meet some of the craziest and who are involved in the most bizarre situations.
Met this woman on a personals site, and over the last few weeks we have only emailed but had talked about meeting in the next couple of weeks. Just to have someone to go out and do things with once in awhile. I was little worried about getting to involved though, because she is a mother of two, and have always told myself that I want to start fresh in my eventual relationship and start my own famuily. But you never know where your heart might lead you. But that worry has been solved and is now out of my life.
Rather than me trying to explain it I'll just paste what she posted in a forum on the site...
I met a man from the internet 5 years ago. We became engaged and also had a son. However, when I was 8 months pregnant he left us to go be with another son he had out of state. His intentions were to spend 6 months there and 6 months with us but that never happened. I have not seen him in 4 years. We never lost touch with one another and we often would talk/email/text everyday. There was a long period maybe 6 months or so where we didn't speak but we got right back into it. He always said he was just torn between what to do not wanting to leave his older son 1,000 miles away. He also always said that we would be together again he just didn't know when or how. Well, about 8 months ago he told me he quit his job and was living in a hunting cabin in the wilderness because he needed to get away from the stress he had been going through over this. So basically he's had 8 months of solitude. I had told him back in September that I could not continue talking to him because it was just too hard for me, that I loved him and if he ever wanted someone to love him unconditionally then he knew where to find me. Well the day has come, he told me a week ago that he wants to get back the life we started together and wants me to start wearing the engagement ring again. He said he's had alot of time to think what he really wants out of life and he needs to get his life straightened out and he wants to start with me. He is currently in CA and I in OH so he says he will have enough money after Tuesday to come here. Now here's the problem...my mother and my best friend think he's full of crap but yet tell me if he is really sincere that it would be really nice if we could have a life together. I have never stopped loving him and I do want to believe him but it is hard. I believe in second chances but should I? I know love is blind so I wanted to see what others thought of this.
Sounds pretty crazy to me? But at the same time, the way my heart is, I would probably do the same thing. I just thought she seemed pretty normal, and to be involved with someone who lived in the woods for 8 years...kind of opened my eyes. And reminded to be aware of who you're in contact with.
Met this woman on a personals site, and over the last few weeks we have only emailed but had talked about meeting in the next couple of weeks. Just to have someone to go out and do things with once in awhile. I was little worried about getting to involved though, because she is a mother of two, and have always told myself that I want to start fresh in my eventual relationship and start my own famuily. But you never know where your heart might lead you. But that worry has been solved and is now out of my life.
Rather than me trying to explain it I'll just paste what she posted in a forum on the site...
I met a man from the internet 5 years ago. We became engaged and also had a son. However, when I was 8 months pregnant he left us to go be with another son he had out of state. His intentions were to spend 6 months there and 6 months with us but that never happened. I have not seen him in 4 years. We never lost touch with one another and we often would talk/email/text everyday. There was a long period maybe 6 months or so where we didn't speak but we got right back into it. He always said he was just torn between what to do not wanting to leave his older son 1,000 miles away. He also always said that we would be together again he just didn't know when or how. Well, about 8 months ago he told me he quit his job and was living in a hunting cabin in the wilderness because he needed to get away from the stress he had been going through over this. So basically he's had 8 months of solitude. I had told him back in September that I could not continue talking to him because it was just too hard for me, that I loved him and if he ever wanted someone to love him unconditionally then he knew where to find me. Well the day has come, he told me a week ago that he wants to get back the life we started together and wants me to start wearing the engagement ring again. He said he's had alot of time to think what he really wants out of life and he needs to get his life straightened out and he wants to start with me. He is currently in CA and I in OH so he says he will have enough money after Tuesday to come here. Now here's the problem...my mother and my best friend think he's full of crap but yet tell me if he is really sincere that it would be really nice if we could have a life together. I have never stopped loving him and I do want to believe him but it is hard. I believe in second chances but should I? I know love is blind so I wanted to see what others thought of this.
Sounds pretty crazy to me? But at the same time, the way my heart is, I would probably do the same thing. I just thought she seemed pretty normal, and to be involved with someone who lived in the woods for 8 years...kind of opened my eyes. And reminded to be aware of who you're in contact with.