for you-niki fiasco :)
This entry is 100% for you, Niki. I'm far too lazy to do this on my own :) But Ill give a happy update on my life and then check back in two years as I have been doing! I now live in Elkton. I moved from Baltimore to Kennett Square PA in the summer of 2008 because Brian's (who is the BF) mom lives there. Her husband was killed in a kayaking accident and needed Assistance. So moving we went. Then I started working at an oil company in West Chester PA, where I still am today. Then we discovered that if we lived with Brian's mom any longer I was likely to maim her. So we moved to a very pretty house in Elkton. The euphoria from that lasted two months. Seriously, thats it.
Now, as to why I hate my house in Elkton. My landlord is retarded. And not in the sad, mentally challenged way. Instead its in the angry, I'm going to kill you because you are incompetent way. They charge is late fees each month...even though my rent is never late... they wont fix my outlets that do not work... they wouldnt fix my leaky ceiling... I hate it.
So we did what any responsible adults would do- we found another place (on the river! on the beach!!!) and were moving in there December. Oh, and instead of telling our landlords, were going to let them discover this on their own. I feel thats acceptable justice.
Oh and on to the big news. I'm due to have a little Ledford on June 30 2010. And by that point...actually by this month's end... I will be a Ledford myself. This rock on my finger is seriously gorgeous too, if I do say so myself. I really want a boy. Although everyone else wants a girl. And we are having a lot of fun fighting every day over names. We agree so far on Brandon Wayne Ledford and thats it. So if its a girl... the poor thing may go nameless for awhile. And as far as the wedding, were disagreeing on that as well. I want to be married before the baby is born. So were getting married in the courthouse, probably next week. But then I said well, we could just have a reception after the ceremony. Well Brian wants to wait until next year to have the big here comes the bride ceremony and reception, because thats whats I have always wanted. But I would feel very selfish having a big wedding when we will have a little breathing human to pay for.
HHMMM... what else is new? Oh, in June we went to the OBX in NC and got into a big fight with Brian's aunt and her family. It was 100% their fault though. And I'm not just saying that.See, Brian's Dad paid for the whole vacation, so Brian's Aunt Kathy, and her family which consists of Rick, Christina and Melanie, said they would take care of food for the whole vacation. Well, let me also explain that Brian's brother also has two little girls, Kyleigh and Alyssa, and a slut of a "girlfriend", Amy who also has a little boy. Well, no one, and I do mean not a single person, likes Amy. And she is aware of this (mostly because we tell her). So Amy waited until we drove allll the way to OBX to say that her "cousin" was killed in an accident and she needed to go home for the funeral. Now, I did my little stalking and discovered that while someone did get killed, she was not related and in fact, barely knew the boy. But Brians brother said ok, we'll take the kids and go back. Now, Brian and I could not see him taking Ky and Alyssa back so we said we would keep the girls and take care of them until they got back. Well, we ended up keeping slutface's little boy too.
Now that the scenario has been set, let me also explain that no one is overly fond of his brother either. He is basically a lazy, immature, 25 year old who is unemployed and moves sluts just like the aforementioned one into his dad's house often. And he takes inadequate care of Ky and Alyssa. I'll also explain that Ricky is Aunt Kathy's son and Christina is his obnoxious, snobby wife. Well, don't you know they spent the entire time complaining about the kids.... even though no one but Brian and myself had to do anything for them, as well as complaining about the food situation. Now, they are the ones who insisted that they would absolutely handle all of the meals because they didn't have to pay for the giganto house we were staying in. But thats how they are, they complain and complain because they think they're better than everyone else. Let me also explain Aunt Kathy is a 14 year old stuck in an older woman's body. She gossips, shes two faced and she plays games. 14 years old may even be too mature for her mindset. Well, one night Christina and I got in the hot tub and she proceeded to bitch to me alllll about how the kids had ruined their vacation, they would never go on vacation with this side of the family again, how horrible Brian's father and brother are etc. So, I told Brian.
Well the next day the shit really hit the fan. Brians dad told Aunt Kathy that if they didnt want to associate with us then they could stay on one floor and we would all stay on another. So Christina proceeded to call me a liar and say I spent the whole time talking about them. They ended up leaving and we still aren't speaking. :)
What else, what else? Oh, I have two dogs now instead of 6 cats. A chowchow, Bear, and a pit/lab mix, Ace. I love them. Love love love.
Oh and I am super mad at my OBGYN. I was bleeding a tad bit last night so I called him and he said I need to tone down my activity level... I work at a desk job and barely do anything physical. But he insists I do too much.
Not cool.
I have nothing else to report just yet.
Oh but give me opinions on baby names. I like for a girl: Haydon Elizabeth, and Arabella (no middle name picked yet). And for a boy, Lucas Nathaniel, Brandon Wayne, and Logan...also no middle name yet.