"Do what feels good, because if it feels good it can't be that wrong. I know this is contrary to alot of things I have said before, and alot of you, actutally particullarly claire will be like no this is wrong, what is nick thinking."
haha umm...so you're right, I do think that's wrong. Doing what feels good can lead to a lot of bad things. People dying, getting pregnant, people regretting their choice for the rest of their life. I believe it's alright to be a little (ha, or a lot) bit crazy, but it's not alright to just be stupid. Being stupid when you make those choices is what makes me mad..."Oh, well this feels right, I better just have sex with this guy!" or "well, it feels like tonight's a good night to get drunk. Oh, you're headed home? Drive me!!"(even tho the person driving is smashed).
Being crazy like you sneaking down to see a friend (despite my feelings that it just hurt you MORE in the end), is something I wouldn't consider stupid (except you know how I really feel about that)...it was just crazy.
Dating people should be fun, I agree with that, and not this super-serious-I'm-going-to-marry-you-commitment. Granted, that does NOT mean it's okay to cheat on the person you're with. If you even consider cheating on that person, you need to not be in a relationship with them, and then, once you're out...you can do whatever you want (as long as youre just not a dumbass).
You know what, you said it yourself, you're not fully capable of loving someone at our age. Yes, we all think we've been in love, but honestly, is that REALLY love? If we're all supposed to have one soulmate, and there's so many fish in the sea... everytime we date someone we think we've found that person, then we just go searching anyways...where does that take us?
Okay, damn, this is a super long reply that really doesn't make that much sense, but hey, I was up last night doing crazy, but NOT stupid things :-p (oh and talking to you trying to make you realize you WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!!!!!)
Have a good one babe! :)
There's a difference between spontaneity and stupidity*
well A.) I called your opinion! B.) Im not implying having sex everyone reading this knows i am anti-sex at our age. C.) Yes there is a difference between spotaneity and stupidity, most sponteanous things arent samrt, cuz at least when it comes to me If i sit and plan something out i either wont do it, or it wont be as well if i just went with my instinct D.) You are such an amazing friend, everyone needs to be more like you :-p -Nick
haha umm...so you're right, I do think that's wrong. Doing what feels good can lead to a lot of bad things. People dying, getting pregnant, people regretting their choice for the rest of their life. I believe it's alright to be a little (ha, or a lot) bit crazy, but it's not alright to just be stupid. Being stupid when you make those choices is what makes me mad..."Oh, well this feels right, I better just have sex with this guy!" or "well, it feels like tonight's a good night to get drunk. Oh, you're headed home? Drive me!!"(even tho the person driving is smashed).
Being crazy like you sneaking down to see a friend (despite my feelings that it just hurt you MORE in the end), is something I wouldn't consider stupid (except you know how I really feel about that)...it was just crazy.
Dating people should be fun, I agree with that, and not this super-serious-I'm-going-to-marry-you-commitment. Granted, that does NOT mean it's okay to cheat on the person you're with. If you even consider cheating on that person, you need to not be in a relationship with them, and then, once you're out...you can do whatever you want (as long as youre just not a dumbass).
You know what, you said it yourself, you're not fully capable of loving someone at our age. Yes, we all think we've been in love, but honestly, is that REALLY love? If we're all supposed to have one soulmate, and there's so many fish in the sea... everytime we date someone we think we've found that person, then we just go searching anyways...where does that take us?
Okay, damn, this is a super long reply that really doesn't make that much sense, but hey, I was up last night doing crazy, but NOT stupid things :-p (oh and talking to you trying to make you realize you WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!!!!!)
Have a good one babe! :)
There's a difference between spontaneity and stupidity*
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B.) Im not implying having sex everyone reading this knows i am anti-sex at our age.
C.) Yes there is a difference between spotaneity and stupidity, most sponteanous things arent samrt, cuz at least when it comes to me If i sit and plan something out i either wont do it, or it wont be as well if i just went with my instinct
D.) You are such an amazing friend, everyone needs to be more like you :-p
-Nick
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