Bullshit art war that got kit 'dropped'

Sep 17, 2007 13:54

Kit’s post got her yelled at and ‘Dropped’ by you Kevin. I write here to say that I read her post before it was posted and offered advice so that it wouldn’t come off manipulative and condescending. She was honestly seeking advice to see if her opinion was wrong since she was being disagreed with so aggressively. She knows she can come off wrong ( Read more... )

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ibowieh3 September 17 2007, 20:27:06 UTC
Hay man lots of people are way out of line with this thing. This was a misunderstanding between metalkat and enemy_anime witch to my knowledge was mostly worked out. There are curtain things people who know metalkat well simply will not bring up with her. Further more there are some of her friends like you that will try and keep anyone from hurting her from that direction ever again. Metalkat stumbled onto something enemy_anime is vulnerable to and he has friends willing to do the same for him. This thing is no longer about Art, Ethics or types of friendships. It’s about not knowing your pushing someone’s buttons, ineffective communication and disproportionate response.
No one took the time to explain any thing to each other in that little melee. They just reacted, got there feeling hurt and reacted some more.
I know a lot of people that are abrasive to talk to or hard to understand. Most people in this thing stop listening when they repeatedly don’t understand the others point of view. Just ask keyosko about his Pave the Bay solution to the Chesapeake’s ecology problem. No one understood that one. The only way for it to make any sense was to completely hear him out. Most got so mad at the first statement that they would not stick around to here the end or just stopped listening.
This is how world war one got started. Everyone cannot have everyone else back. Some times something’s have to start and finish between just the two people involved. Other wise it just pointlessly escalates. So please stand down.

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wolfie_d September 17 2007, 20:32:58 UTC
I thought World War 1 was about the growing economic pressure with the assisination in Belgum as a thin excuse to start a conflict. As for standing down (Throwing a military term at me *grin*), this was in response to the latest in Kevin's post where he said he had 'dropped' Kit, and by that I ment any association with her. I suppose that could be considered working it out man, but I think you should go check it out.

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ibowieh3 September 17 2007, 22:27:53 UTC
I talked with kit and filled her in about allot of stuff. It really seemed to help her. I have no idea what Kevin is doing online other than getting bent out of shape about ever other post in that thread. He just wants to drop the tread for all I knew. Of course other than them being distant acquaintances that but head on some of the strangest stuff, officially I don’t know how they regard each other. Their friends know each other well and benefit from it. Do they benefit from talk to each other I don’t know?
P.S.
The points you stated started the conflict the points I stated turned it into a world war.

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metalkat September 18 2007, 17:21:47 UTC
This was brought up due to Kevin's reply to me in his journal saying he's "dropping" me... and the subsequent banning of me from his journal. Given the post in question was written mostly by D himself, he made this post (I think?) to let them know that he wrote it and some incite on it all. It's not really just about me and Kevin, considering D wrote the post that set Kevin off and made him ban me. I think you may have missed some of the goings ons in the end of all this and are a little confused, but it is all rather confusing anyway so I can understated that.

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