Trying to Breath and my Chest Hurts
I have been trying to stay calm and get everything together but I feel like a giant failure right now and I am just not sure what to do. I have so much going on right now and I just feel stressed as all hell with everything I am trying to do and balance and I am not sure what to prioritize over what and it is just so hard
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I do hope things work out with The Frenchman, not that I've met him or anything, but generally if a girl really likes a boy . . . and is to the point where they're at a loss for what to do, that usually means its a big deal. So, without knowing more, I say good luck to you, just be yourself, and things will fall into place on their own.
On the prioritization of your various activities: I can totally sympathize. Right after I joined BC I quickly realized that I was stretching myself too thin, and there was no way for me to really keep up with the demands of the cast and my regular daily life, so I made a decision and said goodbye (for the most part) to Rocky. The cold-hard truth is that you can't let yourself get distracted by the fun things while ignoring/avoiding/sacrificing the things you need to maintain your independence. You need a job because you need money to live on. You don't need Rocky or BaGG. The hope here is that you can find a compromise between the things you need to do and the things you want to do.
My advice would be to take a break from Rocky while you find a job, and then once your schedule with the new working environment is settled, come back and you can arrange your fun activities around that. Honestly, Work/School should be your first priority, everything else can be planned around.
I hope this helps, though I'm sure you'll be fine no-matter what it is you decide to do.
Cheers,
~J(R)
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