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Dear Meg,
The amazing thing about soulmates is also the most awful thing about soulmates. They change over time. The soul whose matched yours at one moment can morph into a completely different soul, and after a while it just is no longer a match. I know it hurts, I know. It's the worst realization in the entire world. But the Fates have already spun out your entire life and trust me, there is something else planned for you, and it will be good.
My mom told me after Tim broke up with me that the hardest part of breaking up is breaking the habit. The habit of spending so much time with one person, the habit of waking up next to one person, the habit of spending time apart thinking of said person. At the moment I thought she was ridiculous and heartless but it is close to the truth. Finding ways to fill all that time is the hardest part.
There is nothing anyone can say to make breaking up easier. Just know that God or Buddha or Zeus or Allah or all of them at once have another soul out there somewhere waiting to meet up with yours.
In the meantime, I am always here for you, and even though we rarely ever see each other, I am always more than willing to spend time with you. Be good and keep your head above water.
with love and squalor,
.ekw.-*
The amazing thing about soulmates is also the most awful thing about soulmates. They change over time. The soul whose matched yours at one moment can morph into a completely different soul, and after a while it just is no longer a match. I know it hurts, I know. It's the worst realization in the entire world. But the Fates have already spun out your entire life and trust me, there is something else planned for you, and it will be good.
My mom told me after Tim broke up with me that the hardest part of breaking up is breaking the habit. The habit of spending so much time with one person, the habit of waking up next to one person, the habit of spending time apart thinking of said person. At the moment I thought she was ridiculous and heartless but it is close to the truth. Finding ways to fill all that time is the hardest part.
There is nothing anyone can say to make breaking up easier. Just know that God or Buddha or Zeus or Allah or all of them at once have another soul out there somewhere waiting to meet up with yours.
In the meantime, I am always here for you, and even though we rarely ever see each other, I am always more than willing to spend time with you. Be good and keep your head above water.
with love and squalor,
.ekw.-*