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[bestmoirail]

[Nepeta really wishes there was a better filtering system. She's been wanting to ask this for a while but...well, might as well just have at it.]

:33 < id like to ask everyone a question
:33 < how much should you furgive someone?
:33 < if theyve done something really pawful
:33 < what is the line betw33n being difficult
:33 < and being sensible

Comments

[oxidantshappen]

Depends on what they've done. Certain things are, after all inexcusable.

There's nothing wrong about being difficult; you could be sensible for all they know.

[bestmoirail]

:33 < what would you consider inexcusable?

[oxidantshappen]

An act of aggression, I would say. If you're referring to a particular incident, I could probably consider otherwise.

I generally don't forgive, however.

[bestmoirail]

[This is a bit difficult, while she finds herself agreeing with Erik, she has been forced to finally accept that her race is inherently aggressive so it takes a while before she responds.]

:33 < if its something they might not have b33n able to help b33n able to help
:33 < do you still stand by that?

[oxidantshappen]

Perhaps not, though I wouldn't dismiss my preference. If they had a choice and went for the wrong option, then I wouldn't forgive them.

[bestmoirail]

:33 < i s33
:33 < thank you fur your input
:33 < i did no expect to get so many responses
:33 < and so varied too
:33 < but its definitely helped me start to get an idea of what to do