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Nottingham yesterday (and carrying on into today) was brilliant. MJ Hibbett was brilliant, we were there for the soundcheck and he covered Paradise City, because Guns N Roses were playing the Ice Arena next door (the pub we were in was packed full of GNR fans for ages). The gig itself was great, albeit very very hot. There was lots of Bowlie company to be had, including lovely Irish David who I've wanted to meet for months, hurrah. After the gig, seven of us went back to Hannah's. I didn't go in for a while though because I didn't realise she had a dog and it started barking as I was walking in so I stepped straight out again and closed the door. She put the dog in another room though, which, although is not really what I'd want (I'd rather the dog not be there at all, but obviously that wasn't possible), but it was better than sitting in the same room as the dog, I guess. I sat cowering on the sofa for ages hugging a cushion, heh *is pathetic*. But then, it was karaoke time! Oh god. I didn't do the first game because I'm a wimp, but I did a few rounds after that. Considering I was completely sober at the time, I believe I deserve a medal. We played that till 4 am, during which time we got shouted at by Hannah's horrible neighbour.
And then today I got home and find that my sister isn't talking to me at all. I'm seriously tempted tomorrow to just pack a bag and go to Mike's for a few days till she cools down.
This is what I posted on Bowlie about it:
Ach, I don't know what to do. My little sister has had a load of my cds and dvds, not put them back in their boxes and stuff. I got a bit upset about that (slight understatement), since she's been doing it for a long time and it pisses me off.
Now she's left me an angry note saying she doesn't have my stuff and why don't I try "tidying your room because they must be in that shithole somewhere".
Now that's not possible, because I always take care to make sure that all my cds and dvds go in the right boxes. I know she's had the stuff that's missing, because she's told me she's borrowed them, or I've retrieved the cd cases from her room, or she was the last person to listen to it.
She's refusing to buy replacements even though it's obvious that she's lost them.
She's gone through all the stuff in her room and given me back everything that's mine, even the stuff that I gave her in the first place because I didn't want it. I'm going to give her that stuff back, but I don't want this to become a sisters-not-speaking-to-each-other-and-communicating-with-notes situation, which will be made all the worse because we still live in the same house.
I don't know what to do. Even my parents are siding with her. I can't talk to her because she won't listen to me, she's in the 'teenage angst' years (she's 16) and won't listen to anyone. Even if mum was siding with me and telling her to buy me replacements, Holly wouldn't listen because that's the kind of person she is.
*cries*
(I know this is a stupid thing to get upset over, but these are my belongings that I've paid for myself, and it's more the fact that she doesn't treat my belongings with any care or respect that upsets me more than anything else)
Sisters eh...who needs them.
And then today I got home and find that my sister isn't talking to me at all. I'm seriously tempted tomorrow to just pack a bag and go to Mike's for a few days till she cools down.
This is what I posted on Bowlie about it:
Ach, I don't know what to do. My little sister has had a load of my cds and dvds, not put them back in their boxes and stuff. I got a bit upset about that (slight understatement), since she's been doing it for a long time and it pisses me off.
Now she's left me an angry note saying she doesn't have my stuff and why don't I try "tidying your room because they must be in that shithole somewhere".
Now that's not possible, because I always take care to make sure that all my cds and dvds go in the right boxes. I know she's had the stuff that's missing, because she's told me she's borrowed them, or I've retrieved the cd cases from her room, or she was the last person to listen to it.
She's refusing to buy replacements even though it's obvious that she's lost them.
She's gone through all the stuff in her room and given me back everything that's mine, even the stuff that I gave her in the first place because I didn't want it. I'm going to give her that stuff back, but I don't want this to become a sisters-not-speaking-to-each-other-and-communicating-with-notes situation, which will be made all the worse because we still live in the same house.
I don't know what to do. Even my parents are siding with her. I can't talk to her because she won't listen to me, she's in the 'teenage angst' years (she's 16) and won't listen to anyone. Even if mum was siding with me and telling her to buy me replacements, Holly wouldn't listen because that's the kind of person she is.
*cries*
(I know this is a stupid thing to get upset over, but these are my belongings that I've paid for myself, and it's more the fact that she doesn't treat my belongings with any care or respect that upsets me more than anything else)
Sisters eh...who needs them.