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[wire_birdcage]

I was planning on being the bigger person here and just letting everything blow over, but I'm sick of being incessantly whined about when very few people have been informed of what initially caused the problem. Putting this under a cut because it's liable to be long and I like saving people from walls of text on their friends lists.

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[wire_birdcage]

Which is understandable, given you never got the full story from either of us. I didn't want to fuss about it until it was taken care of, and now that it is I figured I should clarify. :| I tried to tell her when I was up at Sol's over the weekend of my birthday that I was going to get a job out here and pay her rent as it was due because we couldn't live together, and I got a screaming wankfest about how I had to come home because she had no friends in Austin. And I know that's largely irrelevant and sounds rather like I'm saying "But this is what she did," but I'm... not trying to make it that way. I don't want you to feel you have to "pick sides", honestly. You were friends with her first and I don't want that to be sacrificed just because I can't live with her. :\ It was a very impulsive decision for us to move in together, and now I know better. I just have to hope that she learned a lesson out of it.

At this particular moment I'm no longer interested in repairing what she's made no effort to try to help me on. Her most recent post on her IJ was out of line, as far as I'm concerned, so until she decides to grow up I've largely broken contact other than through roleplay means. If she wants to initiate something civil, then she's perfectly allowed to. I'm sick of trying. ._.;