Rain(e) continues to fall...

Mar 03, 2010 20:12

In an MSN conversation dated 8th February 2010, Raine denied making comments about cankles to another lolita, and basically did not accept that she was doing anything wrong. This was the last time I spoke to her. I tried so hard to make her see the errors of her ways, but she's far too stubborn and genuinely believes there is nothing wrong with her. My patience has run out, and this is a lost cause. Plus, I can't continue to be friends with someone who is not trustworthy. If you've never met Raine but encounter her at some point in your life, just be careful.


[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
heya, whats the deal?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
yo

Hi Raine,

This is to let you know that I was really unimpressed with your attitude at the last TPC. At least 3 people reported that you'd been incredibly rude to them and you upset the two birthday girls considerably.

I know you can sometimes find these situations difficult and of course not everyone's going to get on with everyone but being pre-emptively rude and nasty is going to win you more enemies than friends.

Consider this notice of a three month ban from meets, starting this month. You're very welcome to come back in May when I hope you can please try to be nice to those you don't necessarily like?

Kyra

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
oh gosh, what did you say exactly and to who??

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
1. How could I have had an attitude by not BEING there 95% of the day? aparently [Person 1] and [Person2] who I hadn't SPOKEN too [not from shunning just due to not seeing them about]

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
well it doesn't seem like Kyra has something against you, she's banning you because of OTHER girls who have a problem with you. who else did you talk to?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
you guys, my actual loli friends. I didn't say anything to the others to be seen AS mean?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
if you didn't talk to anyone else why would the other girls report you to kyra

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I don't know, I didn't say SHIT to any of the others. I thing there might be some vendetta-ing?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
hmm o_o im not sure what to think of this....did you reply to kyra? perhaps you should ask for specific examples, so that you have a chance to explain yourself

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I did ask all that, but really, what the hell. did I give you the impression of being a twat at all

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
i didn't even really see/speak to you much at the meet. maybe you said something to others which they took offence to, even if you didn't mean to cause trouble

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
like I said, I just talked tot he girls I knew. I am not a mean person

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
so what was your response to kyra?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I will look? ah can't see what I sent

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
hmm im not sure what to say to that ;o;

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
it's not fair

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
i don't mean this in a bad way, but maybe you did say something upsetting to the others but just didn't realise it

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I didn't TALK tot he girls I aparently pissed off tho!

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
but like i said, why would the other girls report you if you didn;t?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
like I said, vendeta? people have a problem with me cus it's cool too

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
oh so did u know that [Person 1] already had a problem with u then?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I'm NOT a mean person, I'm careful at these things now cus so many people are flouncey. would be nice to have abit of surport from you guys

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
im sorry, im not trying to side with anyone

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
so your not going to side with a friend over a bunch of people you met once?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
im just being neutral. really don't know what to say about this

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
thanks. You knowm I really think I didn't deserve this shit

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
i know you don't, especially if you didn't do anything to deserve it

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I get so much shit, I mean seriously... wtf

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
i don't know the others very well, but i don't know both sides to the story so can't really say much in this matter

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I jsut thought as a friend you;d stand up for me at least. I get the feeling you don't like me as much any more anywya

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
look, i know you are a nice and friendly person and i do want to be your friend

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
but?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
but, you expect too much from people and you're always degrading yourself, making others feel bad about themselves

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
how does degrading myself make others feel bad?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
you guilt-trip them when they don't know how to make you feel better about yourself

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
oh, thats never intentinal and not all the time is it?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
yeah i know, but this has happened often.just nobody has said anything cos we're your friends and are being polite

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
so how many of you have said this about me? what talk goes on behind my back?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
hey if you have a problem or feeling down you can rant to me and i'll listen and offer words of consolation, that's what friends are for. but when the same issue pops up, and i keep trying and it still doesn't work, well i don't know what else to say

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
like I said abouve, are you all fed up of me then? are you all saying stuff about me behind my back?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
im just saying, if you keep doing this, you're going to lose all your friends

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
so you guys are saying your tired of me?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
i didn't say that

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
then what are you saying? cus I really fely like you guys wanted dick all to do with me sunday (Tokyo Day in London) at the last weekend

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
thats what im talking about. you accuse us of shunning you etc when that's so not true

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I'm paranoid it's not like I wanna be like that

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
im sorry, but i can't help that you're paranoid...what do you expect us to do?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I don't wanna push you guys away, I don't I just had times were I'm really, really low, it doesn't happen allot, I just gete like it fom time to time

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
im not even sure what happened on sunday. we were all waiting for people to get ready and leave but you guys disappeared somewhere. we thought you were coming with us

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
we were. I just don't wanna feel like I'm losing you guys. you do all still like me yes?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
i do, but when you make guilt-trip accusations, well, it's not a very nice feeling

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I don't do it every often. I rarely angst. well other then about shitty works. whoelse has had this problem with me then?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
well as a friend, you shouldn't be doing that at all

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I don't mean to do it tho. can't anyone see that? I odn't say to myself, LETS RUIN THEIR DAY

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
yeah but you don't apologise for it so how am i to know?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
cus I don't know I'm doing it msot the time?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
well i guess thats where the problem is. maybe this is the case with the other lolitas who reported you?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
thing is I KNOW I didn't talk to the ones who claimed I said somethin. so am I close to losing all of you? or you just abit annoyed at me sometimes

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
im not so sure right now...but as i said if you keep this up you WILL lose all your friends

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
who else feels this way?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
and you said you didn't talk to anyone else, but didn't you tell another lolita she had cankles?

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
no?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
but you must have said something? you said yourself you say things and don't realise it

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I'd know if I had said something outright insulting like HUR YOUR FAT. also, whoelse feels this way?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
it's not my place to say

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
so, none of you want to be my friends any more? or it;'s getting that way? now I feel like I can't be upset or have issues cus people will leave me

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
no it's not that you can't have problems and rant. we all do that

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
just tell me whats wrong and what I can do? cus I understand how I can be a poain but REAL friends DO try harder then this

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
it's just that it seems like you are constantly seeking attention/pity from others. like always mentioning being posted on 4chan. why do you keep going there? if it's out of sight it's out of mind

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I don't I get TOLD when I'm there. I have said

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
even so, if it happens so often surely you're used to it by now? ive run out of things to say to that

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I've not whined about that in donks. how long have you felt this way about me? all of you?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
it was just a mild issue which ive noticed for a little while. but it's just recently where ive really noticed it

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
so not long? why didn't you bring it up sooner instead of just being like this

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
not everyone is perfect, we all have flaws. i thought it was just an occasional thing, but ive noticed it's become quite frequent

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
only as of late. and I have been under allot of stress

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
not just as of late as in "just a couple of weeks" but for a few months now

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
what are you tryig to say? your all going to give up on me?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
okay it seems what im saying is not getting thru to you. stay the way you are, and you're going to lose your friends. have a think about it

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
I just don't know what you want me to do is it just when I get emo onlin thats the problem? am I like it in person?

[Wing] MELTY PLASTIC LOLITAAA~ says:
ok well i gotta go now, i'll be back later if you're still online and we can talk about it more. see ya~

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:
tell me. am I like it in rl?

COME ON

TELL ME THAT

I'm trying to sort shit out here

if it's just online then I can avoid online for awhile

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø just sent you a nudge.

º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,øRaineº°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø says:

COME ON

fucking reply will you

lolita, gtfo

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