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lostenergy September 14 2011, 17:00:58 UTC
I thInk you too look adorable together! Only you can decide In the end if you want to give it up to him. Two things: he will either pursue you or not. Whatever you choose to do he'll still have to decide on it, as you do too. I personally find your virtue very impressive. Who knows? Your firm principles might make him like you more than sexual connection.

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wine_carnation September 14 2011, 17:25:04 UTC
What firm principles?? I've been dying to lose my virginity for the past two years. I feel like an old spinster :(

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lostenergy September 14 2011, 23:59:29 UTC
Dont feel like that, bb! Better lose it to someone you won't regret it to than just lose it for the sake of it. :D

Ehh, here where I'm from, someone who's stayed chaste will get compliments.

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fbs_fic September 15 2011, 00:43:19 UTC
I agree - lose it to someone who means something to you. It will be much better that way.

He's definitely into you. Can't say whether it's purely physical or something deeper, but my gut says that if he's going out of his way to see you and spend time with you, it might be something more.

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wine_carnation September 15 2011, 20:55:06 UTC
I keep feeling that it's wrong of me to want it to be something more.....

In our conversations over the past two days, he's mentioned that he wants a steady girlfriend, but only after the salsa festival - meaning, he wants to have a bunch of flings first, and then maybe choose one of 10 girls and try to go steady with her.

I wonder if I should even allow myself to be one of those 10 girls? He's said I can have my choice of spot, and even go twice. It's fucking ridiculous.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT THIS BOY DOES TO ME.

Add to that another of my close salsa friends Ron the photographer... we've also gotten very close, and he's helped me over phone and text twice this week, when I had medical/emotional emergencies and he helped me calm down and figure my shit out. We watched a movie last night at his place, and after the movie we cuddled a bit..... I used to think that he had a crush on me; then I though maybe not.... now I think maybe he does again.....

WHAT IS GOING ON WITH ME WHY AM I SO CONFUSED.

WHY ARE BOYS SO CONFUSING.

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lostenergy September 17 2011, 03:59:46 UTC
Whatever you decide to do i have two things i want to share:

1) if a guy's an asshole, not even wanting to ~settle down will hold him back

2) sex is overrated. Its not gonba be wonderful each time.

At least that's how i see it! LOL

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