What...the fuck?
She broke up with her boyfriend on Saturday because she found out he cheated on her again, making it 6 times, and now they're at her house right now "talking and trying to work something out." She has no fucking consideration for the shit I went through this weekend, with all of her crying and shit.
I had to make sure she didn't do something stupid like this, and when he called her this morning to make an arrangement to come and get his stuff, he ended up just wanting to talk to her, and then he insulted me. He's like "this would be a lot easier if SHE weren't sitting right here" and I was like "I don't think that's your choice, now is it?"
And then he tried to talk and he was like "it would just be easier if she went in the other room" and Shelly was like "yeah, go" and so I sgot up and went to the other room ans said very loudly "I don't see why he has a choice at all...kind of fucked up if you ask me. He doesn't have the right to ask for shit." and then I sat there in the other room and was listening to his pathetic excuses about how she made him angry and then I hear him say that he wants me to take Shelly's car and go home and he can just give her a lift to my place, then more talking, then he was like "oh, how about a long distance relationship?" and she's like "that wont work, but I need you to be here for me and show me that you love me and blah blah blah" and then Shelly came into the room and might as well just told me to leave, but instead she was like "well, you could take my car if you want to, and then Eric can just drop me off later.."
Hint hint, huh? So I left, I will fucking never speak to her if she takes him back and I have to go through this for a third time. I sense a theme in this relationship: Well, after the first time he cheated on her they talked and she forgave him. Then he cheated on her again and they talked and she forgave him, but they almost broke up.Then she found out he cheated on her again, and again, and one more time, and now they're talking. And I swear to Satan that if she forgives him, there will be some serious non verbalizing and pissivity.
Yeah, she was whining this weekend about how she missed him and still loved him...I miss and love my old dog, Pepper, but it's not like I'm going to go dig him up and play with his corpse. And also: my dog actually loved me. Eric is a lot like a dog.
God, I am so fucking mad right now. Aimee pointed out that it seems like Shelly hurts me a lot. And it's not that she hurts me, she stresses me out, and takes me for granted. And I never really noticed, I mean, I've been noticing a lot lately, but Jesus, It's been 8 years, has she always done this? Does she really not give a shit at all about me?
So: current update: Since I left Shelly's house, I came home, hung out for a little bit, then I get a call from Shelly telling me that she's coming to get her car. I say fine, still very pissed at her. So she gets here, and she's dressed up. I was like "Well, you look nice..." and she's like "Oh, I just wanted to show him what he's missing..." Really? Kinda looked like they were going out to dinner, because why get dressed up while they're "talking" drive over here, pick up her car, and drive home like she said? Does she think I'm an idiot? I mean really? What the fuck. I asked her what she was going to do and she was like "I don't know..." And then I said "Well, I want you to know that Eric is no longer my friend, I don't want to see him, or talk to him. I will never forgive him, same with Nick." and she was like "Oh, i Don't expect you too..."she also left in quite a hurry, like someone was waiting outside for her. Jesus. Fuck. This is bullshit. God I'm seething right now, I've never been so angry at anyone in my life. It's one thing to straight up lie to me, but it's another thing to treat me like I'm an idiot.
I thought she was a stronger person that this. Guess not. Stupid bitch.
I had to make sure she didn't do something stupid like this, and when he called her this morning to make an arrangement to come and get his stuff, he ended up just wanting to talk to her, and then he insulted me. He's like "this would be a lot easier if SHE weren't sitting right here" and I was like "I don't think that's your choice, now is it?"
And then he tried to talk and he was like "it would just be easier if she went in the other room" and Shelly was like "yeah, go" and so I sgot up and went to the other room ans said very loudly "I don't see why he has a choice at all...kind of fucked up if you ask me. He doesn't have the right to ask for shit." and then I sat there in the other room and was listening to his pathetic excuses about how she made him angry and then I hear him say that he wants me to take Shelly's car and go home and he can just give her a lift to my place, then more talking, then he was like "oh, how about a long distance relationship?" and she's like "that wont work, but I need you to be here for me and show me that you love me and blah blah blah" and then Shelly came into the room and might as well just told me to leave, but instead she was like "well, you could take my car if you want to, and then Eric can just drop me off later.."
Hint hint, huh? So I left, I will fucking never speak to her if she takes him back and I have to go through this for a third time. I sense a theme in this relationship: Well, after the first time he cheated on her they talked and she forgave him. Then he cheated on her again and they talked and she forgave him, but they almost broke up.Then she found out he cheated on her again, and again, and one more time, and now they're talking. And I swear to Satan that if she forgives him, there will be some serious non verbalizing and pissivity.
Yeah, she was whining this weekend about how she missed him and still loved him...I miss and love my old dog, Pepper, but it's not like I'm going to go dig him up and play with his corpse. And also: my dog actually loved me. Eric is a lot like a dog.
God, I am so fucking mad right now. Aimee pointed out that it seems like Shelly hurts me a lot. And it's not that she hurts me, she stresses me out, and takes me for granted. And I never really noticed, I mean, I've been noticing a lot lately, but Jesus, It's been 8 years, has she always done this? Does she really not give a shit at all about me?
So: current update: Since I left Shelly's house, I came home, hung out for a little bit, then I get a call from Shelly telling me that she's coming to get her car. I say fine, still very pissed at her. So she gets here, and she's dressed up. I was like "Well, you look nice..." and she's like "Oh, I just wanted to show him what he's missing..." Really? Kinda looked like they were going out to dinner, because why get dressed up while they're "talking" drive over here, pick up her car, and drive home like she said? Does she think I'm an idiot? I mean really? What the fuck. I asked her what she was going to do and she was like "I don't know..." And then I said "Well, I want you to know that Eric is no longer my friend, I don't want to see him, or talk to him. I will never forgive him, same with Nick." and she was like "Oh, i Don't expect you too..."she also left in quite a hurry, like someone was waiting outside for her. Jesus. Fuck. This is bullshit. God I'm seething right now, I've never been so angry at anyone in my life. It's one thing to straight up lie to me, but it's another thing to treat me like I'm an idiot.
I thought she was a stronger person that this. Guess not. Stupid bitch.