Re my recent request for advice
After reading comments from
gilamonstre,
loftwyr,
adjedelftnl I realized I need to clarify this entry http://wilyumz.livejournal.com/85771.html?nc=3, not just for them but for myself as well.
Years ago I wrote this piece http://pozlife.diaryland.com/010330_82.html and I still stand by much of what I believed then. If I’m meeting up with a “playmate” for the first time I don’t always tell him I’m HIfiVe. If he neither asks my status nor volunteers information on his own health matters I assume he’s negative and have nothing but the safest sex possible. However, my profiles in those random sex hook-up rooms clearly state that I am poz.
The person I relate to in my recent post claims to be negative when he is not. Due to this deceit, his potential partner might be less careful than were he to know the truth from the start. That in itself is putting a virtual stranger in danger, and that’s what I’m having trouble accepting.
Maybe I should drop the whole matter and let others deal with whatever problems their actions may cause. Thinking that’s the best option, as far as my sanity is concerned. Should matters change in a way I think y’all might find of interest I’ll provide further details.