seriously, wtf? *MisAdventures in "dating"
Someone on POF (plentyoffish.com) messaged me the other day and we exchange a few very brief emails, "what do you do?", etc. Really, like one-line emails (I was replying in kind to what I was receiving). After may 2 exchanges he says:
GUY: Are you looking for a boy"friend"?
Me: Always looking for new friends, dates are good too, something more than that would be nice - if i find the right person. You?
GUY: I have have a strong need to have a lover. or steady concubine, friends with benefits, and its important to be able to relax and feel satisfied with my lover.
I want a mundain S-e-x-u-a-l relationship with no fear of losing the other person and no conditions leading up to the fear of loss/breakup.
I believe that it is important for two people to responsibly use eachother for s-e-x so they may focus on accomplishing other things. If their are any conditions that get in the way of fullfilling the need for s-e-x then its not worth it.
I dont need a woman who puts other conditions like dating and judging me as a man, among others, infront of s-e-x.
And Im not going to pretend to be a womans friend when I find her attractive.
Rejection is s-h-i-t-t-y , and im not going to waste my time,yet again, talking with a woman who is not willing and wanting to have s-e-x with me on a regular basis.
Im sick of it sick sick sick
However if I did have s-e-x on a regular basis then I could talk to another woman platonically, knowing that I have s-e-x with the person I see regularly.
I dont beleive I would cheet on my lover because, belive it or not, I would value having them for s-e-x, because I dont pick up chicks, and need to focus on something else like school and work.
Yeah, all done with that one. Wow.
GUY: Are you looking for a boy"friend"?
Me: Always looking for new friends, dates are good too, something more than that would be nice - if i find the right person. You?
GUY: I have have a strong need to have a lover. or steady concubine, friends with benefits, and its important to be able to relax and feel satisfied with my lover.
I want a mundain S-e-x-u-a-l relationship with no fear of losing the other person and no conditions leading up to the fear of loss/breakup.
I believe that it is important for two people to responsibly use eachother for s-e-x so they may focus on accomplishing other things. If their are any conditions that get in the way of fullfilling the need for s-e-x then its not worth it.
I dont need a woman who puts other conditions like dating and judging me as a man, among others, infront of s-e-x.
And Im not going to pretend to be a womans friend when I find her attractive.
Rejection is s-h-i-t-t-y , and im not going to waste my time,yet again, talking with a woman who is not willing and wanting to have s-e-x with me on a regular basis.
Im sick of it sick sick sick
However if I did have s-e-x on a regular basis then I could talk to another woman platonically, knowing that I have s-e-x with the person I see regularly.
I dont beleive I would cheet on my lover because, belive it or not, I would value having them for s-e-x, because I dont pick up chicks, and need to focus on something else like school and work.
Yeah, all done with that one. Wow.