Time for me to say something

[willhs]

Ok any one that reads my livejournal on a regular bases knows the crap that is going on with it so its time for me to respond. First off Who ever is posting anonymous and threatening my gf's life better stop. First off it pisses me off more then anything that you would do something like that then hide behind anonymous. You dont mess with my

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[imohsoshort02]

no, i don't know who did it. get over it. but i think it's really rude of you to just dump your friends' asses for a girl. i agree with Lacie 100% here. i don't care if Tara's gonna comment anoymous and say i'm a bitch or an asshole or whatever. you're all her's now and apparently there's not a damn thing i can do about it. and i can't believe that you didn't have the nerve to back Steffanie and i up when Tara was calling us assholes and bitches and etc. does she really have that much of a hold on you to where you can't think for yourself anymore? yeah, in my survey, i said that i don't really know you that well anymore (and that was "rude" according to Tara :P), but it's true. you're never around anymore for us, you're always up in Saginaw.

no one else may have the courage to say these things to you, but it looks like i do. you're killing every single friendship you have here in White Lake the more and more you ignore and avoid us. keep it up, Will. please. 'cause the moment you try to come back to us in the possibility something may go wrong between you and Tara (which i'm not wishing for, btw) don't expect any of us to let you crawl back to us.

so bitch and yell at me all you want saying i'm trying to ruin a good thing. i don't care. and Tara, please comment back. i know you just want to call me stupid things. i was fucking nice to you and you call me a stuck up bitch. wow. i think that's you considering you've only met me TWICE!! and you hardly said anything. is politeness a bad thing up north nowadays? last time i was up there, it wasn't. so come and start yelling at me, both of ya, since "it's wrong." bring it on. i'm ready.

[sweetbubbles252]

Wow...thats very awesome! And I will back Krystle up about this too. So if shit gets started and she tries to be a bitch...imma be here for my bestfriend...because THATS what i'm supposed to do!

[willhs]

okay this is tara and first of all. i just want to say i never said anything rude to you or about you. you were completely nice and i was just making the comment on that you don't know will anymore and i didn't think it was very nice. the only person that i have a problem with is steffanie when i met her she wasn't friendly she used to cawl Will when he was up here to get him to go to a party or what not and i just thought it was flat out rude and that's where my problems came in. i done told will i have no problem with ya'll but it would be nice to get to know you guys. with the exception of steffanie. she is not nice at all. so that's where my problem comes in and any problems so i just wanted to make that clear. so bitch about me and say what you want. get it out. because there is only problems with one person there. so just make your opionions and say what you say krystle and lacie because i made one comment when the only one that i actually think is rude is neither of you guys. so good bye i think that's about it for now.

[sweetbubbles252]

You can't talk shit like that about Steffanie...once again you don't know SHIT about her! Did you know that since Will does nothing but come see you...he misses out on shit thats going on in his friends lives? And he misses out on seeing them. Steffanie only wants to see her friend again. I think that Will got to see you enough! And I think that it's RUDE that you could ever even talk like that about one of his friends. Steffanie is an AWESOME person. She's bright and sweet and she always puts others first. But you wouldn't know that...you were too busy being nasty about her calling him and trying to hang out with FRIEND she has't seen in a while. IT was nothing against you...it was because she missed him. You need to stop to think about the whole situation and not make everything about yourself. That comment just proved that you don't think about anyone but youself. and I read over what you wrote about them and I also read that comment that someone posted. I'm sorry that they posted that...and if I knew who did it I'd tell ya. But gimme a fucking break! You were way outta line. You have to think about what you say about people....because people have feelings...as do you. And they feel that their bestfriend was taken away from them...they can't help but feel that way...if only you could meet his friends and see. Spend a little time here...make a date....have a party! Shit...I'll have a fucking bon fire @ my Aunts and you can come...and I'll invite Krystle and Steffanie...and some of my friends! And you'll see that we are all just a bunch of funny ass people! But you have to give us a chance...and not make it about you! I have to go now...I'm not trying to be rude here...just wanted you to know what was going on. And Steffanie is a good friend of mine too...and I'll back her up...and I believe I just backed all his friends up just now! So...bye for now!

[sofia2005]

Frankly I don't feel as though I need to justify myself, but since so many others have stepped up and defended me I only felt like it was my right to do the same. You don't know me, I am not the horrible person you envision I am. I met you once, in a crowded bowling alley, in which i said hi and nice to meet you. I was probably the most excited to meet you since I'm one of Will's closest friends and I knew how happy he was. However after saying hi to you, you didn't seem to have all that much to say to me, plus it was my turn to bowl so I left, figuring you guys would stick around. You guys left like five minutes after that, and that is all you have to go on. Now as for me calling Will and inviting him to a party while he was with you, well frankly I don't remember that. I'm not saying I've never called him while he was with you, but it wasn't intentional, or I never knew it bothered you. From what I can remember if I have ever called Will while he is with you he's respectful and is like "hey I'm at Tara's can I talk to you later" and I respect that. I can't pretend to know where Will is all the time and you can't expect me to know everything so for you to get mad at me for calling him is just ridiculous. If you thought it was that rude that I called, why didn't you just have Will tell me that huh? Why couldn't he have said, "hey Tara doesn't really like it when you call me while I'm there" and I just would have texted him or something, telling him to call me later or what not. It wouldn't have been that big of a deal, however you are making it out to be so. Will is/suppose to be one of my best friends and like a brother to me. That's it. We've been friends for almost four years and I've always confided in him about stuff and vice versa. Here's a question for ya---if you really think that I am rude and not nice at all, then why is Will friends with me? I mean, you can basically base your friends on yourself, so if that is the case then you think Will is rude and not nice as well? Or do you just think he doesn't know how to pick his friends? If you care about Will that much then obviously you don't think these things, yet you want to single me out as being rude or not nice. I'm curious on that part. You claim that you don't have a problem with the rest of the group and that may be so, but they'll never meet you/get to know you without me. They would never disrespect me like no matter how much they might like Will, although it hasn't been just me he's been leaving behind but everyone else as well. I know how happy Will is with you, and I only want good things for him. That's the difference between you and me. Even when the rest of the group didn't seem to think you were all that nice when we met you, I was the one who decided to go neutral and give you another chance. You, on the other hand, seem to think you've got me figured out. I'm sorry you feel that way and I can't change your mind. I am who I am and if you don't like me, well oh well. But don't for a second think I have been trying to break you and Will up or that I haven't tried to give you a chance..

okay i'm ending this now

[ximmaevilchicx]

okay i just wanted to say i'm ending this now. you may not admit it be we are all in the wrong. first of all i was refering to a night when i got my eye poked out wiht the phone cawl and you cawled a couple times and text messaged him and it kind of bothered me because i felt you were trying to take him away from me on that certain night. but i'm done. Will is getting hurt by all this and i dont want to see it. you may think i'm in the wrong for saying this but i'm sorry i don't feel comfortable with Will hanging out with girls i understand that are his best friends but i don't know you guys. so it's wierd to me. and i know people that will back me up on it. but he put himself in a hole when it came to you. but i seriously am sick of all this arguing. i understand you and all your friends don't like me but i am really not a mean person. i have a hard time getting along with females period. sounds wierd but i do. so you guys can still think what you want but i am admitting to being in the wrong and for the whole i am stealing will and not having a mind of his own i believe ya'll are in the wrong. so whatever you and krystle want to think you can think post it back that's fine i'd rather have stuff said to me then behind my back.

on another note as to stealing ya'lls friend i just want to say that will works, and goes to school and we love spending as much time together as possible. i feel that that just happens when a relationship comes along period. all my friends always drift away when they are in a relationship and it's just normal. i mean you have to except that and that Will is still your friend he hasn't changed at all so you shouldn't say that. he is just busy with other stuff. i mean you should understand that i understand right now i have two friends one who is married i hardly see her anymore and one that just has a boyfriend he works in detroit so she spends every moment that she can but i don't get mad and hate her boyfriend or anything like that.

as i said i am admitting i am wrong if you guys want or don't want to i think for Will we should all put it behind us and maybe try to get to know each other before we just come to conclusions about anything. so i think that is about all i am going to say.

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[sweetbubbles252]

"Will is getting hurt by all this and i dont want to see it. you may think i'm in the wrong for saying this but i'm sorry i don't feel comfortable with Will hanging out with girls i understand that are his best friends but i don't know you guys."

No wonder you don't get along with other woman!

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[willhs]

Ok lacie, it is time for you to butt out and mind your own buisness. This had nothing to do with you to start with and still has nothing to do with you. You need to find something better to do then butt into everyone's life.

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[sweetbubbles252]

I started into this when Tara blamed me for writing that shit! So get off it!

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[ximmaevilchicx]

everyone at work yesterday was telling me i'm the nicest person they've ever met. imagine that. 3 people that say i'm mean and about 100 or more say i'm nice. i was trying to make peace for everything and you made a not so nice comment and everyone else chose not to respond. which is fine i'm not the one getting hurt by all this. i was just being the big person thinking others would follow along for a friend.

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[imohsoshort02]

according to your comment, it said for Will, to put this all behind us, which i did, and then i see this comment. very interesting i think..interesting. i just want to say that i didn't even wanna comment this time, but i felt i needed to, just to clairify that i chose not to comment before on Tara's comment mainly 'cause it said not to. so i didn't. that's all.

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[sofia2005]

Hmm.. so that many people think you are like the nicest person they have ever met huh? Well then if that is the truth you just must be awful with first impressions if all of Will's friends didn't think you seemed that nice when we met you, but what do I know. Frankly all of this has gotten competely out of control. You think you were the bigger person by admitting you were wrong, well you were. What is left to say? I honestly don't think myself, or Lacie, or Krystle, or anyone has done anything wrong aside from trying to care for a friend. We responded to a survery of his, you responded back that we were assholes.

Basically I think it is your stupid assumptions that got us all here in the first place. You assumed that I or the rest of us are not nice people, after meeting us all for maybe three minutes. You assumed that I was trying to "steal Will away" as you put it, although if you knew me at all you know that would never happen (if you knew Will at all either then you would know he'd never let that happen) and then you assumed again that the reason we aren't responding to your posts is because we want Will to choose between his friends and you. That's bullshit. We never have asked him to do such a thing and we never would have. However you wouldn't know that since you've never taken the time to get to know us. And on another level, I still think it's shitty that he's dumped his friends. I have been in relationships in the past where, yes, I have hung out with my friends perhaps less then when I was single. But I never stopped returning their calls, I never stopped hanging out with them, even if it wasn't as much as it use to be. And I wouldn't expect my friends to think it was just okay that I never saw/talked to them anymore because suddenly I had someone else in my life. That's completely ridiculous. It's not like me, or Krystle, or the rest of the gang is mad because we don't see Will all the time. We don't see him at all. We don't hear from him at all. Is this your fault? No, I blame all that on him. Still, I think your playing some serious mind-games if you keep making these bad accusations about us that are completely untrue. If you don't like us, well oh well. If you want to single me out as the person you think is "just not nice" then do so. I don't need to go around asking a bunch of people if I am nice to know who I am....

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[willhs]

Ok i dont recall not returning anyones calls. If i did not return a call then i appoligizie. and as far as lacie not doing anything wrong she has. When she threatened my gf's life. It might have been posted under anonymous but i have my ways of finding out. Its amazing what IP addresses will tell people.

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[sweetbubbles252]

You dumb fuck....I NEVER fucking posted that....your IP addy shit is out of line! It's NOT my fucking IP addy on that cause I NEVER did it! Don't you DARE say I fucking did! You don't even know me anymore to be saying nasty things like that. I've NEVER don't anything mean to you Will...so don't get all up in arms with me over some woman that I think quite frankly is a bitch! I'm sorry for that Will...but you've done nothing but abuse your friends for that woman...and it's sad you never learned. When Tara and yourself are over...and you try and walk back into your friends lives...you better be really careful....because they are starting to lose intrest in trying or standing by. You let some woman attack them...and they are the ones that have been there for you for the last 5 years or so....and no only that...but they love you too. And this new woman doens't have SHIT on these people! I have a say in this because you brought me into this by telling her it was me. And it WASN'T me so just back off about it already. The IP addy is a bunch of SHIT cause I NEVER did it. Now...if you wanna keep taking mad shit about it....why don't you and your woman have a talk with all of us together in a room...and get som shit stettled...and if she's scared...then too bad. She brought herself into this mess by opening her mouth....now she needs to back it up or get the fuck out. I'm sorry that she thinks everyone likes her...but whatever. They just don't know her....she's just nice on the outside....deep down she's got some jelousy issues and some respect issues too! We all have problems....but this shit isn't my fault...or Steff's or Krystle's! It's Tara's for assumeing shit thats isn't true! Now...I'll excuse myself from this as long as you say your sorry for accusing me of writing that shit about your girlfriend! BEcause....I never did it....bye now

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[ximmaevilchicx]

okay first of all i know who i am and never have to ask anyone i hear it all the time how nice i am. second of all for me trying to end all this drama and you just sitting there tawking more shit you are making Will choose there is no silly mind games. everything that i put when you replied to Will's anonymous journal he agreed with i didn't even have to explain myself. Will is a big boy i let all my men make there decisions. and considering you guys saying will is constantly in saginaw he is here twice a week if i check my calender right there is five extra days. so don't go blame it on me. A couple of Wills friends reading this shit or that you have ran your mouth too even said that you girls are putting Will in a tough decision so don't go tawking shit to me and say you arent. and basically all i said out of the whole thing is that your "anonymous i dont' know you anymore post" were assholish and rude and then i got a lot of shit tawked to me and i made about i think three post that were not that mean pretty nice well one was nice to krystle then i made a nice one to you then i thought it was rude no one could respond then you guys did and it still wasn't nice. and Will said last night he's done. so i no longer have to make another post again. Will agrees with me on all this too. and remember he's a big boy. oh and read my post again then read yours and realize it makes no sense :P

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[sofia2005]

If he really was a "big boy" as you claim then maybe he'd have the balls to come forward and tell the rest of us how he feels instead of hiding behind your ass, or even behind this stupid lj. But he doesn't and so he is not the person I was friends with four months ago, or the person Krystle was friends with four months ago, or even the person that Beri or Brea or Rose or anyone else was friends with. So you can have him and frankly to speak for both Krystle and I on this one, we were both done long before you or Will made the decision that he is. Actualy in truth, I was done the day he decided that "might have to babysit for your kid" was more important than his best friend's 21st birthday. So if you think that it's some big surprise to us, think again. And while I take no part in all that shit that was written on your lj--frankly I think it was what you deserved--a rude awakening that not everything is about you. I'm sure Will agrees with everything you had to say to us, whether it be rude or your twisted version of nice. So frankly I don't care what you or he has to say about all this. Since you are "such a nice person" you shouldn't care...ha ha ha