why?

[wildnwacky]

i've been thinking about a lot of things lately... like "why?" i mean, there are so many things we can ask 'why?' to, but will we ever get the answers to our question? to me it seems highly unlikely right now

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[dr_roboto]

well first off, those guys were staring not because you were eating, but because you were female and they were most likely horny. second, people dress freakishly because they hope that you will stare at them. they feel attention starved and want to be noticed. why do you goof off or act funny? you want people to notice, whether you admit it or not thats what you want. and people judge others by their looks because we can. humans fear what we do not know. if i dont know you, you are a risk, what if i misjudge that guy and he mugs me, well what can i infer about him without actually getting to know him, his looks whats he wearing? whats his hair like? what can i glean from him without speaking directly to him. thats all it is. look at me. do i look like a straight A student? no i look like a class clown and a stoner who is about to flunk out. Some people magnets to the opposite sex because we arent all the same. some were both with a stronger libedo. some were born naturally attracted to the opposite sex. you are in a different way than your sister. almost all of my friends are girls. you have a lot of guy friends. your sister has a lot of guys shes interested in. its how we were made. just accept it and be glad you arent a nympho or something. and beauty is defined individually. sure the media has an influence, but ask the average guy if he thinks most models look hot, and hell say no theyre too skinny and usually ugly. beauty is in the eye of the beholder, how else would the uglies find other uglies and be happy? because they find beauty beyond skin. to be pretty or handsome isnt always a blessing; many times it can be very detrimental to your life because you always want someone who looks the same and you therefore skip over the people who would be absolutely perfect for you just because they dont look as nice. and some people let other people fight because its neccessary or because its really none of their business. if you came upon a fight in the middle of the hallway are you gonna jump in and stop it? no because youre afraid for you person. well its the same with the world but on a bigger sense. if bush jumps into every fight hes gonna get us (you and me and all our friends) killed. and as to why were not helping africa, i can give you three reasons none of which you will like. 1 were quite busy in the middle east, 2 war is expensive and if he jumps into another one our taxes will go up and hell lose support from us the voters, and 3 youre right, africa has no oil or resources other than diamonds to offer us so why get people killed and risk the spread of AIDS or something like that. and the reason nobody else gets off their ass is because we the consituents want to help but we cant do anything about it, it takes a person in the governtment to do it, but they wont because theyre such corrupt assholes who only care about more money that they wont do anything that would risk losing a job or costing them money. god i hate government sometimes. sorry to be such a pessimist, but i answered your questions and it only took me 20 minutes

[wildnwacky]

thanks david, really, thanks for everything, you have been such a great person and friend to talk to and i just want to come over to your house right now and jump on you! ;) haha, no, but really, thank you so much for being there for me whenever i need someone to talk to!
and no, you dont look like a stoner! :)
love <333