Who the fuck does that!
So, i have this friend that ihave had since college. When we were in college she started dating this guy that ididnt like then cause he was really rude to her and so judgemental and uncaring. And, of course she married him and i was just like i cant run her life whatever. So, a big thing in their marriage has been that she is a former weed head like way before i knew her and has slipped a few times in their marriage because she quit not because she wanted to but because he made her cause he is a cop and an asshole. So, i rarely see her but i went to her house a few weeks ago because she got new windows and wanted to show me and our other friend.The whole time we were there, the husband just sat on the couch not speaking. Even when we tried to spark a conversation he would say two words and not talk anymore...
So, come to find out he was mad because she brought me over and "i might have brought weed into his house". so, part of me like well, who the fuck are u!"A. i am trying to have a kid so i chose to leave my party ways behind me. B. so, what if i did...it has nothing to do with you deutsh bag. so basically she is forbid to see me cause i might give her weed. even though, the few times she has slipped up and went sobbing to her husband ithad nothing to do with me. I wasnt even there. and the person she has smoked with she goes out with 3-5 nights a week drinking and not seeing her husband.
part of me wonders, has she been scapegoating me? has she needed someone to blame its been me? because she should have defended me. not that hes not an asshole, and he is always has been. but that she is supposed to be my friend. well, their marriage is fucked up and i didnt even do anything. i feel like insulted,betrayed and generally annoyed? he doesn tknow me, hasnt even ever tried to get to know me..and yet he can judge me? what a judgemental ass, such a cop..so, thats my rant...
So, come to find out he was mad because she brought me over and "i might have brought weed into his house". so, part of me like well, who the fuck are u!"A. i am trying to have a kid so i chose to leave my party ways behind me. B. so, what if i did...it has nothing to do with you deutsh bag. so basically she is forbid to see me cause i might give her weed. even though, the few times she has slipped up and went sobbing to her husband ithad nothing to do with me. I wasnt even there. and the person she has smoked with she goes out with 3-5 nights a week drinking and not seeing her husband.
part of me wonders, has she been scapegoating me? has she needed someone to blame its been me? because she should have defended me. not that hes not an asshole, and he is always has been. but that she is supposed to be my friend. well, their marriage is fucked up and i didnt even do anything. i feel like insulted,betrayed and generally annoyed? he doesn tknow me, hasnt even ever tried to get to know me..and yet he can judge me? what a judgemental ass, such a cop..so, thats my rant...