Roller coaster of love
This morning K wakes up in a mood, nasty as all hell which none of my doing. I wasn't in the mood so I reacted to her mood with the 'Why are you mad at me?' defense which only works on rational people. I ended up leaving with a FU Bitch over my shoulder. She calls me at work acting ok and eventually get's to an apology so I let it slide .again. She calls up again after lunch and is pissed at our vet because they can't give her a %100 answer to why Annie is doing worse and can't rule out cancer because of her biopsy, fever and symptoms. No animal or people dr will give you a %100 diagnosis with on minor test and a few symptoms. The K's credit and her sister their opinion of our vet has been fairly accurate. They are quick to surgery, too quick. They want a bigger biopsy but the results take two weeks! If it is Cancer or even infection shouldn't they be cautious about slicing her open? K is right about everything she is doing it's just that she has this combative nasty manner that makes the other party get defensive. Everything is a battle and when she's not feeling good, it just esculates. Next, Tuesday we go to another vet, my sis-in-laws vet who has a farm and raised dogs. The sis-in-law is K's older sister who is by all accounts a worse and bigger bitch than my K and the fact that she gets along with these vets speaks highly of their people skills so I expect them handle K. So getting back to her 2nd call, after she goes off to me about these vets. Next, I become the target because she hasn't eaten yet and hadn't given lunch to the boys so I'm now firmly grasped in her jaws. She's spiteful that I've already had lunch and most likely an omelet for breakfast. I just said I have to go and we hung up. Now the last call I had she's out running errands and doesn't really apologize but does acknowledge that everything is driving her crazy and she's at her limit. What do you say to a control freak who is losing it and won't let you ask questions or suggest anything? 'Nothing' is the answer. She seems to calm down after another 5 minutes. She's going to talk to the current vet to see if we can get different wide spectrum antibiotics for her to take w/ us to the mountains.
This weekend we are heading to the mountains with her folks. Should be much fun and I will look forward to getting the boat out on the lake with k and her father just to get away from her. She always doing the drama queen speech about running away and _____ is killing her. Seems to me I should be the one running away screaming.
This weekend we are heading to the mountains with her folks. Should be much fun and I will look forward to getting the boat out on the lake with k and her father just to get away from her. She always doing the drama queen speech about running away and _____ is killing her. Seems to me I should be the one running away screaming.