The Ex's Wife!
How many out there are divorced? I am, and have two beautiful children to show for it. Aside from them, I got nothing out of the relationship but a big fricken headache.
You know what, is nearing 11PM and I just spent 45 minutes of my life with my Ex's wife. Here, the kids don't even hear from their father, but his wife calls and talks to me like we are close friends. What is the deal with that? I dislike pretending to be all nice, esp. when I think she is a psycho... or at the very least, needs some mental help.
Seriously. Would you consider having a child when you know your husband is in the Army and bound to go to Iraq in the near future. They were married for about five months, him knowing to move in about seven months, that means he would not be around when the babies are born. Or at least, he would not be there for a good potion of the first two years of their life. KNOWING this, would you opted to allow yourself to be pregnant? That just doesn't seem like a good plan.
Get married+get pregnant+leave for 2 years+have 2 other children+my two children+then give birth to twins=bad idea. That's my thought on the hold deal.
Besides that, this woman really has it in her thoughts that we are friends. She tells me things of my EX, her Husband, like I should care. Like sharing gossip with her best buddy. I mean, these would be things I would indulge with my best friend, but come on, to the husband's EX-wife? A little strange if you ask me.
To top it, I mean.... Why is she calling me and not him. He has two children here that I have to make excuses for him as to why he may not have called. I am tired of it. And I told the WIFE that I will not tell my kids when he plans of calling. If I had it my way, he would never call again or see the kids again. I say that easily, because my fiancee has been more of a father to them for the last 3 years than he ever was while we were married.
He has his hands full with two new children he had with his wife, two children she had from previous relationships, and yes that's relationshipsssssssssssssssssssssssssssss, meaning more than one father. Anyhoot, he should be calling the kids when he says he is going to call them. But you know what? My daughter is 9, she will figure it out and make her own mind up as to how to deal with him. My son, however, is a little confuse about the whole thing, rightly so. He calls Mike his dad, but knows who is his father, that being Jason. And if these patterns keep up, he too, will make up his own mind and deal with it in his own way.
WOW, I vented. Thank you and good night!And Percocet is my friend!
You know what, is nearing 11PM and I just spent 45 minutes of my life with my Ex's wife. Here, the kids don't even hear from their father, but his wife calls and talks to me like we are close friends. What is the deal with that? I dislike pretending to be all nice, esp. when I think she is a psycho... or at the very least, needs some mental help.
Seriously. Would you consider having a child when you know your husband is in the Army and bound to go to Iraq in the near future. They were married for about five months, him knowing to move in about seven months, that means he would not be around when the babies are born. Or at least, he would not be there for a good potion of the first two years of their life. KNOWING this, would you opted to allow yourself to be pregnant? That just doesn't seem like a good plan.
Get married+get pregnant+leave for 2 years+have 2 other children+my two children+then give birth to twins=bad idea. That's my thought on the hold deal.
Besides that, this woman really has it in her thoughts that we are friends. She tells me things of my EX, her Husband, like I should care. Like sharing gossip with her best buddy. I mean, these would be things I would indulge with my best friend, but come on, to the husband's EX-wife? A little strange if you ask me.
To top it, I mean.... Why is she calling me and not him. He has two children here that I have to make excuses for him as to why he may not have called. I am tired of it. And I told the WIFE that I will not tell my kids when he plans of calling. If I had it my way, he would never call again or see the kids again. I say that easily, because my fiancee has been more of a father to them for the last 3 years than he ever was while we were married.
He has his hands full with two new children he had with his wife, two children she had from previous relationships, and yes that's relationshipsssssssssssssssssssssssssssss, meaning more than one father. Anyhoot, he should be calling the kids when he says he is going to call them. But you know what? My daughter is 9, she will figure it out and make her own mind up as to how to deal with him. My son, however, is a little confuse about the whole thing, rightly so. He calls Mike his dad, but knows who is his father, that being Jason. And if these patterns keep up, he too, will make up his own mind and deal with it in his own way.
WOW, I vented. Thank you and good night!And Percocet is my friend!