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Yall know my (former) niece that got pregnant a couple years back by my ex's best friend? She was 19, he was 36, and she grew up calling him her uncle, and I had so many problems just thinking about that? Well, her baby is being raised by my ex-mother-in-law because of some things that happened. Chantell turned 21 earlier this month, got out of jail yesterday, and announced on fb this morning that she and Gary are pregnant again, expecting in January. Idek.
On the upside, when I start thinking about how I'm not the world's greatest parent, at least I personally know other parents that are worse?
The boys are going to spend the weekend with James, because Holdon goes back to school on Tuesday so it's the end-of-summer sleepover. So I have a weekend to myself. To do nothing. I'm not feeling internet-sociable, and I'm definitely not feeling rl-socialable, so we'll see how this works out.
I have to go to court on Monday about child support. The lady I talked to at DCSE said they're trying to get approval to garnish my ex's wages? Um, lady. We already have that approval, which is why the dumbass never works legit jobs. Also, he's going to use this car accident & his injuries from it as an excuse to file for disability. He doesn't qualify for disability (which child support would be able to be taken out of) but he might qualify for SSI (which child support CAN'T be taken out of). But not working means no wages to garnish. But hopefully they'll put a lien on his pending insurance settlement. He only owes me about $20K in back child support.
Did I tell you guys about Jo being a manipulative bitch and trying to take James back to court to get full custody of Holdon? I'm still so pissed about that. I mean, I know that no judge in their right mind would give her custody, but I'm still anxious about it.
Okay, enough RL whining. I've got laundry to do.
On the upside, when I start thinking about how I'm not the world's greatest parent, at least I personally know other parents that are worse?
The boys are going to spend the weekend with James, because Holdon goes back to school on Tuesday so it's the end-of-summer sleepover. So I have a weekend to myself. To do nothing. I'm not feeling internet-sociable, and I'm definitely not feeling rl-socialable, so we'll see how this works out.
I have to go to court on Monday about child support. The lady I talked to at DCSE said they're trying to get approval to garnish my ex's wages? Um, lady. We already have that approval, which is why the dumbass never works legit jobs. Also, he's going to use this car accident & his injuries from it as an excuse to file for disability. He doesn't qualify for disability (which child support would be able to be taken out of) but he might qualify for SSI (which child support CAN'T be taken out of). But not working means no wages to garnish. But hopefully they'll put a lien on his pending insurance settlement. He only owes me about $20K in back child support.
Did I tell you guys about Jo being a manipulative bitch and trying to take James back to court to get full custody of Holdon? I'm still so pissed about that. I mean, I know that no judge in their right mind would give her custody, but I'm still anxious about it.
Okay, enough RL whining. I've got laundry to do.