wow this is like the least meaningful post ever!
so yeah im living with 7 other girls in my suite. at first it seemed fine...but slowly piece by piece the facade is breaking away...and as much as men think girl are all cleanly and nice etc. they truly arent. they are messy slobs. they dont clean dishes...replace the toilet paper, clean the kitchen or the bathroom and never vacuum. which is where i come in. there always has to be that one person that does that shit because they hate living that way. and its me... at least for my side of the hallway.
i mean... i truly hate it. its like i dont mind living with them. but....
(a) they are always loud... not extremely loud...but there is never any quiet time. i mean everyone needs a little quiet time. but because there are sooo many of us there never seems to be any. someone always has some stupid ass tv show on hella loud... or has a conversation with someone across the entire suite. i dont understand it.
(b) dont ever live with friends. cause you never truly know your friends until you live with them. but honestly you really dont. i live in the same suite but separate rooms... and you know. i really regret that now. even though we arent in the same room its still too much togetherness....mainly because of her behavior.
(c) i cant stand the stupidity and conformity that sororities are based on. i truly dont. and sticking me in a suit with 5 sorority girls is truly and honestly like living in my own personal hell.
ive definitely come to the conclusion that regardless of the sorority (whether its on the top of the greek hierarchy or the bottom) all of these girls are completely insecure with themselves and would crumble at the thought of going through college without a set of paid friends. i mean i dont understand it. at first i gave them the benefit of the doubt. but now i just see that they are totally and completely made up of the same types of girls.
there is always that mean girl that puts everyone else down to prove her own superiority because she lacks the confidence to truly believe that she is "superior"... and lacks the modesty to not flaunt it all around. and always the dorky girl that in high school never felt like she was part of anything, and therefore decides to join the uber superficial bimbos trying to prove the same thing... that they are good enough to be part of a group and worthy of being accepted by their peers. meanwhile they promote the elementary game of picking girls to be in their sorority which ironically is so very similar to the way that they felt left out when their pe class was picking teams for dodgeball... who is gonna be the last one picked...or the one not picked at all?
i dont understand it. they promote sisterhood and do charitable things. but what do they do to stop the vicious cycle that made them the way they are? they objectify and humiliate their "sisters" by having a fraternity member come in while the new pledges are wearing bikinis and proceed to mark all of their imperfections with a sharpee marker. or make them sing humiliating demeaning songs while dancing provocatively and by the way totally sober and in front of 100 frat boys. how does that seem like sisterhood. they'll tear you down. show you just how imperfect you are and then claim to be your friend.
who would put themselves through that. i just dont get it and i never think i will. to go through that is just so awful. to let someone treat you like that and then think that they are your friend is just plain stupid. it would be one thing if it were trivial things that the frats and sororities put the pledges through. but these are like totally emotionally destructive and disturbing things. i mean the state of some of the girls just after recruitment was like awful. its like some exclusive club that everyone thinks that they want to be in... but when they get in they just totally think that its shit....which it is. but yeah thats my rant and rave for about a month or two.
i mean... i truly hate it. its like i dont mind living with them. but....
(a) they are always loud... not extremely loud...but there is never any quiet time. i mean everyone needs a little quiet time. but because there are sooo many of us there never seems to be any. someone always has some stupid ass tv show on hella loud... or has a conversation with someone across the entire suite. i dont understand it.
(b) dont ever live with friends. cause you never truly know your friends until you live with them. but honestly you really dont. i live in the same suite but separate rooms... and you know. i really regret that now. even though we arent in the same room its still too much togetherness....mainly because of her behavior.
(c) i cant stand the stupidity and conformity that sororities are based on. i truly dont. and sticking me in a suit with 5 sorority girls is truly and honestly like living in my own personal hell.
ive definitely come to the conclusion that regardless of the sorority (whether its on the top of the greek hierarchy or the bottom) all of these girls are completely insecure with themselves and would crumble at the thought of going through college without a set of paid friends. i mean i dont understand it. at first i gave them the benefit of the doubt. but now i just see that they are totally and completely made up of the same types of girls.
there is always that mean girl that puts everyone else down to prove her own superiority because she lacks the confidence to truly believe that she is "superior"... and lacks the modesty to not flaunt it all around. and always the dorky girl that in high school never felt like she was part of anything, and therefore decides to join the uber superficial bimbos trying to prove the same thing... that they are good enough to be part of a group and worthy of being accepted by their peers. meanwhile they promote the elementary game of picking girls to be in their sorority which ironically is so very similar to the way that they felt left out when their pe class was picking teams for dodgeball... who is gonna be the last one picked...or the one not picked at all?
i dont understand it. they promote sisterhood and do charitable things. but what do they do to stop the vicious cycle that made them the way they are? they objectify and humiliate their "sisters" by having a fraternity member come in while the new pledges are wearing bikinis and proceed to mark all of their imperfections with a sharpee marker. or make them sing humiliating demeaning songs while dancing provocatively and by the way totally sober and in front of 100 frat boys. how does that seem like sisterhood. they'll tear you down. show you just how imperfect you are and then claim to be your friend.
who would put themselves through that. i just dont get it and i never think i will. to go through that is just so awful. to let someone treat you like that and then think that they are your friend is just plain stupid. it would be one thing if it were trivial things that the frats and sororities put the pledges through. but these are like totally emotionally destructive and disturbing things. i mean the state of some of the girls just after recruitment was like awful. its like some exclusive club that everyone thinks that they want to be in... but when they get in they just totally think that its shit....which it is. but yeah thats my rant and rave for about a month or two.