Quick update
Hi all, just saying a quick hello, not much happening here apart from the usual hassle and torment from DH, begining to get really sick of his crap, dished out to me and the kids, every time he gets in contact he starts hassle with me, if i have plans made for the kids and i tell him he cant come down (which doesn't happen very often) I'm being a boll--, and withholding access,his language is dreadful, even infront of kids. Originally he was meant to be spending Christmas here for the kids sake as he worked last year, I knew it wasn't going to be a great idea, but for the kids I went along with it as they were really looking forward to having him here, since yesterday he know has "other plans" arranged so he wont be down, I asked him why he didnt tell the kids and he said that " I would get more enjoyment out of doing it", how selfish can he be?,,when i told the kids that their daddy would'nt be down the eldest two said it didn't matter as he'd prob only use bad language and start a fight, but the youngest was gutted, what can I do?,, I'm really begining to think that I should only let him see the children with supervised access,, I am tired and weary of it all, and they kids are too,,it's not fair on them, he also asks the eldest questions about the man I'm seeing, and she comes back and tells me, he has no excuses for anything he does or says, his only answer is that its "my fault".
Anyway enough of the rambling, just had to get it off my chest, would appreciate some comments or advice, if anyone has been through same thing, cheers.
Anyway enough of the rambling, just had to get it off my chest, would appreciate some comments or advice, if anyone has been through same thing, cheers.