update
Ok here goes seen as I'm being hounded for an update, lol, well life at the mo has been pretty horrible for the last 2months but am getting through it i think.
Basically myself and DH (and that doesnt't stand for dear husband anymore) have seperated, he's been seeing someone else which i had a fair idea about, and dkept on at him to tell me, which he eventually did, thankfully I kept my pride and didn't turn into a basket case, after all the kids are my priority now. He comes and goes as he pleases , doesnt leave any money and spends very little time with the kids, he's obsessed with where I am, or who I'm with and has gained passwords to all my computer programmes, the guards had to get involved the other night as the name callin infront of the kids got a bit too much for me to handle, he got drunk another night and smashed a kitchen chair up, basically I went out yestreday and started the ball rollin for a safety order, so we have to go to court in two weeks to sort that out, anyway other stuff has happened but too long drawn out to even go there, so for now, I'm just happy that kids are with me, and I know that somewhere down the line they are going to resent him for what he has done, and i hope he can live with it, as for me tonights a night to get drunk with friends and have a laugh, lol, oh yeh and a special thanx to mobilemum for being there.
Basically myself and DH (and that doesnt't stand for dear husband anymore) have seperated, he's been seeing someone else which i had a fair idea about, and dkept on at him to tell me, which he eventually did, thankfully I kept my pride and didn't turn into a basket case, after all the kids are my priority now. He comes and goes as he pleases , doesnt leave any money and spends very little time with the kids, he's obsessed with where I am, or who I'm with and has gained passwords to all my computer programmes, the guards had to get involved the other night as the name callin infront of the kids got a bit too much for me to handle, he got drunk another night and smashed a kitchen chair up, basically I went out yestreday and started the ball rollin for a safety order, so we have to go to court in two weeks to sort that out, anyway other stuff has happened but too long drawn out to even go there, so for now, I'm just happy that kids are with me, and I know that somewhere down the line they are going to resent him for what he has done, and i hope he can live with it, as for me tonights a night to get drunk with friends and have a laugh, lol, oh yeh and a special thanx to mobilemum for being there.