Feb 14, 2008 23:23
Ok, I'm going to make it official on livejournal, facebook, whatever. I am dating the BEST man EVER! Like he is adorable, and sweet, funny, i am just in crazy love with him. Here's background: he finished his PhD at NJIT last May but he hangs out alot in my lab cause his prof left. All last semester, when I really started doing research, he was looking for a job as an analytical chemist (yes he is a chemist too). He finally landed a job at the end of the semester in Princeton, NJ working in a contract chemical company. Now, it is important to note that my research was driving me nuts so Amit, Hao and I would go out to movies and dinner. Eventually, it worked out so Hao and I just went out and we always had good times but as friends. Hao and I have been dating since New Years Eve, I came back from FL, drove up to NYC, we went out at Webster Hall (big club). At midnight, he asked me to date him, (as if I could say no). As you probably can tell by his name, yes he is chinese (northern region, close to Xixian), shorter and older than me but I don't give heck and neither does he. By the way, he's from the year of the Dragon and I'm from Rat (i know I'm a total sap now). (still coming to turns to that).
Like I'm in a grumpy mood today (period). But he wants to come and see me, if it had anyone else I would have said come back tomorrow but he's like "I really want to see you." "Ok," I sigh and wait from a bit for him. He finally gets here (to dorm) and I go out with his present (picture frame (love birds), cd holder for the car (trust me he needed one), card (I NEVER buy cards), and hand warmers for when we go skiing). He gives me white roses (I swear I didn't tell him, he figured it out on his own (he's so smart!)) and a journey diamond necklace. I was praying they were fake, but they're not (they had to be expensive, I don't care what he says!). The reason is cause he wanted me to have something to wear for my best friend's wedding (points to self, bridesmaid in Oct). I'm trying to figure out other stuff to say, I'm just speechless that he does so much for me. I mean we go out to dinner ALL the time, he takes me to great chinese places, introduces me to his friends. He's sweet. I really don't deserve him, but at the same time, I'm just as crazy about him. I mean, I just think about him and I'm giddy as a school girl (imagine crazy smile x1000). Also, when I'm around him, I not loud at all. I'm actually quite and he's ok when I do get loud. Shit, I need to get up early and proctor and grade freshman chem (the prof who runs that is more OCD than anyone else I know).