Timeline Question

[jpgr]

I'm working on my first fic and I was wondering if there is a timeline of Neal's life (and Peter's) based on what's revealed in the show. I may need to re-watch "Forging Bonds", but I can't recall how or when Peter learned Neal's name. This will play into the second part of my story.

Thanks in advance!

ETA: I'm also getting conflicting birthdays for Neal. Wiki and White Collar Wiki say March 77. There is a screenshot from an ep that has Neal's birthday as October 77.