Apoligy

[whitecain]

I would like to apoligise publicly to stilkil for the frankly insulting comments I made to her in a post last week. These comments have now been deleted from the post and I withdraw them completely.

I may have changed a lot over the past few years... But I clearly have a long way to go in matters of tact and perseption.

Comments

[eratess]

Maybe I'm just a bitch... one of those things I freely admit... but if this is the situation I'm thinking about, and the comments I'm thinking about... there's really only one part you should consider withdrawing - you know, the name calling bit. Other than that, I don't think it's much to expect of a former friend to at least be civil and moderately sociable. Then again, that's the same situation I went through with Josh and the rest of the crew... and I'm a little sensitive towards the whole thing.

Regardless, your tact... not always the best in the world... but your perception isn't something you should ever doubt. Yes, there may be underlying circumstances -- but, what you feel and what you see in life are things you shouldn't doubt. Especially when it comes to matters of friendship and how you feel you should be treated. Like I said, things may not have gone the way you wanted for a reason... but that doesn't mean you should take back anything you were feeling at the time as far as feeling neglected and whatnot.

Obviously the comments were made for a reason, and hell, if they provoked the communication channels to re open... maybe that's the point.

Regardless... flaws in tact and judgment and your occasional anger... I still love you so much babe.

[stilkil]

Perhaps you do not have all the information about the 'particular situation' to make that particular assesment.
I am always civil in public - to *anyone* - regardless of the situation.

I don't know you - you don't know me....let's forget this 'particular' incident.

[eratess]

...and it was worth bringing this back up over a week later? I HAD forgotten.

I'm not going to apologize for being supportive of him during a situation where he was clearly bothered a great deal when it happened. Don't expect me to, because it'll never happen. Regardless of what I know or don't know about what happened... I'm still going to take care of HIM and his emotions, first and foremost. You don't like it... that's really too bad. I haven't personally attacked you, I haven't gone out of my way to provoke you, and I've never commented about your personality myself -- that's the best you're getting from me. My support for him won't be changing, nor will my aggravation with anyone who hurts him.