Sex Survey (extreme TMI)
Have you ever had intercourse with someone who had a genital piercing?: Nope, but I wouldn't turn it down.
Women: How do you react when your partner loses his erection while having intercourse?:
Men: How do you react when you lose your erection while having intercourse?:
I don't recall it ever happening, but it wouldn't bother me as long as we could be creative and still have fun. I wouldn't want him to worry at all, much better to play it off light-heartedly.
Have you ever had "rug burn" (on your back or butt) from a sexual encounter on the floor?: Yes. Ouch.
Do you ever take ideas from pornography and try them out in your sex life?: Hmm. Not that I recall. Most porn is REALLY hokey and is only useful for entertainment.
Does the idea of having sex with a virgin turn you on?: Not specifically. At my age (32) I'd not expect a young person to want me to be their first. ;)
Have you ever gone from anal to vaginal penetration without washing the penetrating object (penis, finger, dildo, vibrator etc.): Not that I know of! :D
Does it turn you on to have your anal region stimulated?: Yes!
How do you feel about stimulating/penetrating your partner's anus with a finger?: Never done it, but not opposed.
Have you ever engaged in anal sex?: Tried it twice (just to be sure the first time wasn't a fluke) and didn't care for it.
Women: Do you caress your partner's testicles while performing oral sex?:
Men: Do you like it when a partner caresses your testicles during oral sex?:
I do, yes. Assuming they like it.
Have you ever sucked on a mint before giving oral sex to increase the sensation for your partner?: Yup. And an ice cube.
Would you like your partner to start performing oral sex on you while you slept?: No, I think it would freak me out.
Do you like the taste of semen/vaginal excretions (assuming that your partner's genitals are sparkling clean)?: Totally depends on the person. Some people, yay! Some people, nay!
How confident are you with your oral sex skills?: I'd have to say very. I seem to get rave reviews, anyway. ;)
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how do you feel about kissing him/her on the lips?: Suits me fine. :) Really turns me on if I'm giving head and they want to kiss. :D
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how much eye contact do you like?: Depends on the mood. But I love eye contact when I'm giving!!
Which 'ejaculate management strategy' do you prefer?: Condoms keep everything tidy.
Would you perform oral sex on your partner after vaginal penetration?: Yup.
How old were you when you first engaged in oral sex?: Hmm, I guess 20. No lie.
Do you swallow your partner's ejaculate/vaginal excretions?: Sometimes I swallow sometimes I don't. Depends on the person and my mood.
In your view, which has more significance, oral sex or intercourse with penetration?: Penetration, imo.
Do you enjoy giving cunnilingus/fellatio (oral sex)?: Yes, if the guy isn't too very big or the girl isn't too very hairy. :D
How does the smell of your partner's genitals affect your desire to give oral sex?: Cleanliness is a must.
Do you enjoy receiving oral?: Only if I can really relax. As in get drunk.
Which sense, with the exception of touch, plays the largest role in your pleasure during sex?: Site. Definitely.
How do you feel about naughty, dirty talk during sex?: I feel *very* good about it! :D
Do you find it sexy to have your toes sucked on or to suck on your partner's toes?: Nope.
Women: How do you feel about hairy chests?:
Men: How do you feel about a woman who doesn't shave her armpits/legs?
I prefer less hairy chests. And I'd have a problem with physicall attraction to a woman who doesn't shaver her armpits or legs.
What body type turns you on the most?: Anything that isn't too extreme, but I must admit I like curves!
Have you ever had sex without kissing the other person on the lips?: Yes. (Think "morning breath") And it can be super hot to have nothing touching but the naughty bits. ;)
Do you like watching the penis enter the vagina?: I most certainly do!
How do you feel about spanking during sex?: I don't know. I liked being spanked in a playful way before sex, so who knows?
Do you like being bitten during sex?: Maybe gently nibbled... ;)
Other than your genitals, what is the most sensitive erogenous zone on your body?: Not counting boobs either? Hmm. I'd say the base of my neck.
What kind of music gets you most in the mood for sex?: Something that totally grooves with a slow, strong beat. :D
Would you like to have erotic pictures of your partner?: More than the ones I already have? Sure! :)
What is your favorite way for your partner to verbally express his/her pleasure during sex?: Something like "God, you feel so fucking good!" would do it.
When you are aroused, do you like to have your nipples stimulated?: Most definitely!
Would you be turned on if your partner had his/her genitals pierced?: I don't know. Not my primary partner, no.
How do you feel about having sex in a public place?: Short of being arrested I'm all for it. ;)
Have you ever cracked up laughing during or just after an orgasm?: I have, but rarely.
Have you ever reached orgasm without actually being touched/touching yourself?: Once. Unfuckingreal. From an online conversation. Wow.
Do you like your partner to watch your face while you reach orgasm?: Not particularly, but it doesn't bother me.
Who in your couple usually reaches orgasm first?: Me. :D
In which sexual position do you most easily reach orgasm?: Missionary's always a sure thing.
During sexual intercourse, how much time does it usually take you to reach orgasm?: Usually? One to three minutes for the first one. ;)
Have you ever had a condom break?: Not to my knowledge.
Do you worry about getting pregnant each time you have sex?: No.
How would you react if your partner confessed that he or she was bisexual?: I think something like "FINALLY!!! Thank God! Who do you have in mind? Because I have a suggestion or two!"
How long could you go without having sex with your partner before you start feeling that there is a major problem in your relationship?: A couple weeks and I'd address it, but wouldn't think there's a major problem.
Would it bother you if your partner had sexual fantasies about another woman?: LOL You mean a woman other than his main girlfriend and his other 2 or 3 love interests? :D Not in the least.
Women: Does the size of your partner's penis matter to you?:
Men: Are you happy with the size and shape of your penis?
It matters a little. I mean there IS such a thing as too big! But I've never seen one in real life that was too small. In fact if it's a little on the small size I enjoy giving head more.
With how many partners have you had unprotected sexual intercourse (no condom)?: Two, but one was just for about 3 minutes then we used one.
For the most part, what type of contraception do you use in your couple?: Condoms currently. Vascectomy soon.
Does using a condom during sexual intercourse detract from your pleasurable sensations?: Mine? Nope.
When did you discuss the subject of contraception/protection with your current (last) partner?: Sometime before we were married. No idea.
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy in which you were raping/being raped by someone?: No. Never. Never will. Most abhorrent thing on earth to me.
Would you have sex (using a condom) with a reasonably attractive stranger for one million dollars tomorrow evening?: Of course!
What is your favorite sexual fantasy?: Currently? To see a guy I like give head to another guy I like. :D
Have you ever fantasized about another person while you were making love to your mate?: Sure! :D Sometimes we both fantasize about the same person. ;)
How do you feel about using vibrators during intercourse?: Never tried it.
Have you ever gotten caught in the middle of a masturbating session?: Maybe once when I was a kid.
When you masturbate, who do you most often fantasize about?: This guy I like (hell no, I'm not naming names!) ;)
How old were you when you first started masturbating?: 8?
Have you ever masturbated while your partner was watching?: Kind of. :D
Would it bother you to learn that your partner masturbated while looking at porn?: LOL I buy him porn. :D
Would it turn you on to watch your partner masturbate?: It always does!
Have you ever tried the spoon position?: Yup!
Do you answer the phone when you're in the middle of a steamy session?: Have in the past.
What's the longest you've ever gone without having sex since you became sexually active?: About half a year, maybe more, when I had surgery and wasn't allowed to. :(
Do you and your partner use lubrication when giving/getting a hand job?: Nope.
Have you ever had or given a discreet hand job in public?: Yes. :)
What is the greatest number of times that you have had sexual intercourse in the same day?: I think around 4 or 5.
During foreplay, leading up to sex, who usually takes your clothes off?: Me usually. I'm usually pretty eager.
What do you typically do after having sex?: Immediately after, go to the bathroom to clean up. (I can be, um, messy...) :D
Who has the greater sex drive in your couple?: Probably him.
When you have sex, how many times do you usually do it?: Once usually.
Do you talk (other than making inarticulate noises) while having sex?: I talk dirty sometimes. ;)
In how many different sexual positions do you find yourself during your typical intercourse? One to two usually, sometimes more.
What is your favorite sexual position?: Missionary's my favorite, but I like all kinds of positions.
How do you feel about the person you lost your virginity to?: I love him with all my heart. He's my darling husband.
Do you think prostitution should be legal?: Yes. It's consensual. You can pay money to watch two people fuck (pornos) but can't participate? Also, if it were legal they'd have legal protection as well and the industry could be safer.
Would you most likely have oral sex or intercourse first in a new relationship?: Probably oral sex first.
Women: How many times do you think men get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when they are sleeping)?:
Men: How many times do you get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when you are sleeping)?
I would guess they get an erection a couple times a day. I'm sure aroused much more, but for a full erection, I'd think not as often.
Have you ever pulled your partner's hair during lovemaking?: No, but I've had mine gently pulled (and liked it).
Would you say your current partner is (or, for men, you are) well-endowed?: Very.
Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex?: Yup. :D
Have you ever kept a memento of a sexual encounter (panties, shirt, boxers, dark blue dress)?: Not that I recall.
When you lost your virginity, who was the first person you told?: Didn't have to tell anyone. It was my wedding night so everyone assumed I'd either lost it then or well before.
At what age do you think sexuality education (in schools) should begin?: I have no idea, but when a kid starts asking questions, they should get answers from the right sources.