What's it worth?

[whipchick]

He yawns loudly from behind the bedroom door, which I know is the signal for please come have sex with me now. We joke about it, I’ve already planned to wake him the best way from his nap

Comments

[reprobayt]

Keep typing.

I am sure he knows you love him...and patience can have its own rewards. :)

[kathrynrose]

We wrote!

Now go have fun!

[writerdoc]

This happens to me a lot, in a variety of situations. Sometimes you have to choose the people in your life and sometimes you have to write. I feel like you just have to learn when is the best time, and for me, that's the most difficult part.

[tigerweave]

He'll learn and you'll learn it doesn't have to be an either/or, it's just a timing thang and that you can have both.

She says, speaking from experience :-)

If I may

[drwex]

I notice you didn't actually ask for advice, and this is worth what you paid for it...

I've never known a writer who didn't need to negotiate writing time with their partner(s). Lots of communication and reminders and flexibility can pay off. Trading time then for now and treating a relationship as an opportunity and not only a scheduling challenge.

I hope whatever you choose works out for you.