Feb 23, 2004 16:18
hmm, something has been making me mad lately. ive been noticing alot of people are rushing into saying they love someone and saying they feel things that are impossible to feel so early. just because you feel something new for someone, or just because you think they are an awesome person doesnt mean that you are in love with them. throwing that word around makes it meaningless and saying things you dont mean is lame. also saying the same thing to different boyfriends or girlfriends is lame too. certain things will obviously overlap as well as certain feelings but each relationship you share something special, certain places mabye, or songs, or words, and these kinds of things when shared with someone are things that you will never forget, they remind you of that person and it was your thing. therefore, dont share the same special things with different people, pick something else or else your memories will be lost. yup i bet this makes no sense to half of you because you are saying " i really do love her/him" and stupid shit like that, but seriously spare me because its really pissing me off lately that we are this old and we still are acting like high school love puppies. another thing that bothers me is when people just go out with the first person who likes them, or likes the first person that comes along. just because you like somoene and think there a cool person doesnt mean that you are fit for a relationship or in DEANS case that that person is mature enough for a relationship. sorry dean i had to. but yea, be careful seriously bcause if you rush into relationships or rush into certain feelings your going to get hurt and its going to be a regret. be patient :)