I caught this in my bedroom. USA, northern VA.
Sorry, the lighting in my room sucks and all I have is my phone.
I think it has a faintly striped butt.
My guess is flying ant. Or possibly termite, but I hope not. Seems too black to be a termite? i dunno, but it keeps its wings folded like the internet tells me a termite does, and its antennae are straight... but it seems to have a small waist, so... I don't know. Help?