Mar 21, 2009 20:57
[How long do you continue to have romantic feelings about your former partner after a breakup?]
I guess it's safe to say my feelings for Lorelai never effectively went away, not that I tried to dispel them or whatever. Dispel, that's a new word for me. Anyway, for Lorelai they lessened or hid under a rock or somethin', maybe under the black hat. The only reason I ever wore that had had been because I wasn't able to find the other one. It had fallen behind the stove but of course I didn't know that. So, I changed hats. I need a hat. I don't go without a hat unless there's something formal or nice resembling a meal or a party.
I didn't wear a hat at Rory's 21st birthday party. Then again, I didn't really drink a Rory. Sorry, Rory but your drink was fruity and pink. Come to think of it, I don't wear a hat to Lorelai's parents ever. It's not polite. I know this. I can be a very polite guy whether or not I have a vein on my forehead that juts out when I'm yelling at Taylor Doose. Taylor does not require polite.
I really fear the day Taylor hands the town to Kirk. He wouldn't really, would he? I'm getting off track, here.
Uh, romantic feelings. So, it's not really fair or nice to say this but Nicole, Anna - all of them, I had feelings for. They might not have been deep but there were feelings. I never had feelings for April's swim coach. Match made in vegetarian hell if you ask me. Who doesn't eat meat?
It's meat!
But, my feelings for Lorelai, they're like my feelings for meat -- more romantic and nice and proper but, OK, not always proper but they're real and they don't just go away. No amount of time will make them go away. I don't want to lose her again.
No woman compares or will ever compare to Lorelai Gilmore.
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