The touch

Jan 05, 2003 13:54

In the events of your lifetime you are faced with obstacles. Little fopas of evil just setting around to cludder your visions of good and wholesome thoughts. As these evil demons appear there are always diferent chooices to incure, as to which way to deal with them. You can take the manly approach and charge head long into it and try to find a way to fix it. You can take the femanin approach and study it and try to find away to keep it from happening again. Or you can take the procrastination approach and just disregard it, hoping it will just sort itself out. However you attemp to sort through your anger or aggrivation there are times that nothing works. For some reason or another the jest of your abilities falls short. It is then and there that all relationships are defined. The abilities of both persons to interact and cope with the diversity at hand. To some avail the problems are usually not too hard to sort through. But ocassionally , once in a blue moon there is no answer or middle ground as to which the two can consent.
After the battle, the argument, the disallusionment of both parties as to the point and reasoning there is a healing process which must take place. An understanding that you just agreed to disagree. That a healthy relationship should move forward. Not harboring ill-will or anomosity the two must reach a consensus that for the better of the whole all is ok.
This can be attained by many gestures. The classical boquet of flowers, the wink , the crying appology. Out of all these and many other lavish ways to consoul the other . The one that is the least physical , the least requiring of emotions. The one that make the biggest statement is the one that requires the least of everything.
This statement isnt gold or a signature with blood. It isnt a big hugg. An appology of grand magnatude isnt the answer.
This statement that touches the very souls of the two involved, reaches through the most dense fog, the one no-one sees. Only the two there. The two that needs the consouling. A touch too that is so great just from the reasoning of love and forgiveness.
A touch in the middle of the grocery store. As you pass one another a gentle caress on the arm in the hallway. That is the touch of love. The true the biggest feeling and the with the least amount of gesture. To touch as to feel the others electric.
In the endless ramblings of a fool. The act of the forgiveness is the same thing that brought the two together in the first place . the emotion of love expressed n a meere grazing of skin. And that is the logic of the touch.
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