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I just realized what it is that turns me on. When I meet the right someone, and there have been a few, it is that power, not in the position they hold, but the position their mind is in. What I mean is that after that initial spark of attraction, it is not a question of if, but of how and when and who is willing to do what to make it happen. That fabulous game, and the better my opponet, the hotter the sex when it does happen.