Feb 16, 2010 00:09
Just been to a close friend's wedding....
The event was different as compared to the conventional Chinese weddings as her husband is a foreigner. It was nice, heart warming and definitely touching to see that she is happily married.
It suddenly strucked me to ask myself this question:
"Would things been different if we (or in particularly myself) have put in more effort previously?
I believe most of us would have been through this type of experience(s) and the feeling is always not easily described using words.
In another similar occasion, my secondary school teacher was passing a 'sarcastic' remark as well...."I could not have imagined that you are the groom"....her words have deeply etched into my mind although the event took place several years ago.
I believe it takes a lot of work and effort to make a couple decide to tie the knot....
Just a gentle reminder for all the eligible bachelors and bachelorettes who put all their heart/strength/soul into their work:
Maybe it's about time to think about putting more effort into our own relationships. Be positive and work on it!