Pregnant Bridesmaid

[novas]

So I just found out one of my bridesmaids is pregnant and she isn't sure when here due date is yet but we do know she'll be between 7-9 months at the time of my wedding. I'm not going to ask her to step down but I do admit I am a bit worried. Mainly because I'm going to be having a Vegas wedding, the bridal party is going to be doing a lot of

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[novas]

To be quite honest I didn't want more than 2 bridesmaids to begin with. I only wanted 2 of the people that I'm closest to and that is my sister and my cousin. However, my mom from the very beginning of planning had basically said she's not paying for the wedding unless my 2 brothers were in the wedding party and to make things a little more even considering my fiancé really wanted his 2 brothers and his nephews in it, I just asked her. No idea why but I'm one of those people who likes things to be even.

Like I said I'm not going to tell her to drop out of the wedding but at the same time in all honesty yes I'd rather her not be in it. Not because she won't look good in a dress or my dresses won't match but because I'm honestly worried about how she'll be able to handle the day (for some reason I always think of worst case scenario), it's not about how it will look or me being worried about her taking the attention away from me or whatever. Yes it's important to me, but I have been searching around for different options for dresses. Yes I'm worried about how it will look, that doesn't mean I want her out o the wedding.

I hope that made a little sense.