Question about walking down the aisle...

Oct 20, 2010 09:17

I'm just going to get to the point with this post; my dad died when I was 6, and though I like my step dad, I think it would feel awkward to walk down with him, considering our past. Me and him did NOT get along for the 13~ years I lived at home, but as soon as I moved out, he became a lot cooler. Unfortunately, we are not exactly close, despite me ( Read more... )

ceremony, traditions

Leave a comment

moonnfreak October 20 2010, 16:32:55 UTC
my dad died 10 years ago so my sister and i both had this dilemma as well. my sister got married a couple years ago and chose to walk down the aisle with one of our uncles who she was close to. i have decided to walk down the aisle with my little brother- he's now 18 and it just feels right for me. if it weren't for him i would consider walking down with my mom- i know it would mean a lot to her.

another option i have heard of people doing is walking down with their significant other. i think that is really sweet too.

i think you should do whatever your gut tells you. :)

Reply

hchan October 20 2010, 16:51:49 UTC
That sounds so nice =) My family is really
spread out so it does limit my options, but I
think even if my uncle was still around, or if
I had brothers, I'd still end up just with mom xD
But I posted this wanting to hear other stories...
thank you for sharing =)

Reply

arsefire23 October 20 2010, 17:16:54 UTC
Why do you type that way? All split up like a poem? It's really annoying to try to read.

Reply

hchan October 20 2010, 18:14:32 UTC
Ahaha. Sorry, it is a pretty bad habit,
I guess. It comes from typing on this really
wide art site I use, and also, doing comics,
I end up doing this as well for the word
bubbles.

Reply

lalanav October 21 2010, 00:44:25 UTC
Hm, why was the post normal, though?

Reply

hchan October 21 2010, 06:10:27 UTC
Lol I write my posts in notepad cos I often find
myself getting distracted and closing browsers at
times without sending a post. I have the notepad
set to wrap around and it is windowed small, so I
don't feel the need to hit enter when the lines
get longer, seeing as it is already narrow ;)

Reply

kahlan_amnell October 20 2010, 19:58:27 UTC
I think the many posters on this community who don't bother to use capital letters or punctuation are much more annoying. I don't think that hchan's comments are difficult to read at all. Oh well, everyone has different things that annoy them.

Reply

nacho_cheese October 20 2010, 20:13:10 UTC
I think both are equally annoying, FWIW. ;)

Reply

arsefire23 October 20 2010, 20:33:36 UTC
This.

Reply

hchan October 20 2010, 21:21:47 UTC
THIS MAKES ME INCREDIBLY SAD, but also
makes me think I could link this to you:
The Alot is Better Than You at Everything

If you haven't seen it, I think you totally
need to. It is possibly the greatest thing
ever.

Reply

nacho_cheese October 21 2010, 12:38:17 UTC
Oh, I'm very familiar with the Alot, and wish its kind would go extinct. In the meantime, though, it IS fun to imagine what the Alot is doing in place of the actual word.

Reply


Leave a comment

Up