Anyone else...

Jun 22, 2008 22:09

having total nervous breakdown moments of tears?  Or am I completely abnormal?

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yourstareiscold June 23 2008, 02:17:43 UTC
I have had a couple... mostly over stress and worrying that things won't be the way I've imagined them for the last 19 months... You OK?

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pinksparklezoxo June 23 2008, 02:18:39 UTC
Same. Yeah I'm fine. I've never lived away from home before, so I'm a little nervous. And I'm not good at change. Before college I freaked out like woah (and I didn't even go away!!)

Thank you for responding. And for asking.

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yourstareiscold June 23 2008, 02:21:48 UTC
Oh jeesh... I can relate to the being away from home! I travel for work, usually not more than a few times a year, but EVERY. FRIGGEN. TIME. I leave, I start to bawl when I'm saying bye to FH & the animals... AND I travel with his teddy bear. And cry for the first like 20 minutes if I'm driving.

It's totally normal (OK, maybe it's not but I can pretend it is!), and you're welcome on both counts! =)

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nicholelynn June 23 2008, 02:47:56 UTC
That totally sounds like me in every aspect. I HATE trips. I cry when I have to leave....and I worry during the whole week leading up to me going. I hate leaving my FH. :(

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blueberryeyes17 June 23 2008, 02:22:27 UTC
Not yet, but we're still 15 months out. My time will come. :-\

Don't worry... no matter what happens your day will come together and you'll be married!

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student4life June 23 2008, 02:30:05 UTC
Yesterday I was picking up FH's stuff off the floor so I could vacuum and I just started crying. He came downstairs and found me sorting our stuff into piles with tears streaming down my face.

Our wedding is in 20 days and I find myself crying at the littlest things more and more. Between the stress of the upcoming wedding, the stress of the end of the year, the constant family and wedding party obligations (fun, but still something I have to do), and the fact that FH hasn't been around much lately, I just have to cry more than I usually do.

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pinksparklezoxo June 23 2008, 02:31:30 UTC
i SO understand! though i'm sorry that we're acting like this, i'm kind of glad to find that i'm not alone.

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student4life June 23 2008, 02:38:16 UTC
You're not at all alone!

The up side is that it made me feel even better about FH. Every time he finds me crying he asks what's wrong, if there's anything he can do, and if I would feel better if he just held me. Sooooo adorable.

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_hindsightbias June 23 2008, 02:36:43 UTC
Just had my first one this afternoon. Six weeks 'til the wedding and facing bridesmaid mutiny and extremely critical in-laws. Not the time to tell me you hate my plans, thanks.

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_hindsightbias June 23 2008, 02:37:51 UTC
Also, hang in there, girl. We are all going through it, and we will all rock it. :) Hope you feel better soon.

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pinksparklezoxo June 23 2008, 12:01:02 UTC
its getting TO the rocking it stage that's drivin' me nuts! :)

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dulyoncourt June 23 2008, 02:37:48 UTC
My friend told me just as I started preparing for my wedding that crying during the wedding prep is totally normal. It happens at least once. At first I brushed her off and thought that she is crazy until I got my 'wedding dress' (the one that made me feel like a glittery elephant). I cried like a baby.

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