We decided on this cake, but done in 3 tiers and white flowers on a dark red tablecloth.
Bottom layer: white cake, lemon filling, chocolate icing
Middle layer: chocolate cake, raspberry filling, white icing
Top layer: white or marble cake, raspberry filling, chocolate icing.
We found a private baker, who did my friend/BM's wedding (and is her friend), and she is doing it for less than $200 with delivery and she will make us an anniversary cake next year (I am assuming that part isn't included in the price, but for this price, who cares?) I've actually tried her cake at my friend/BM's wedding and it was really amazing.
We also chose to go with
this photobooth company. They are local, know our photographer, and are just what we had in mind.