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let's start off by saying that my fiance's best friend since kindergarten is getting married next month. not even... on September 22nd. they are getting married at the same exact place as we are. same colors. same food. same horse and carriage, etc etc. she booked this place after knowing that we were getting married there. We aren't getting married until March 8th. that made me very angry. Dennis (fh) and I agreed that we weren't going to go to this wedding because we didn't want to see everything before our big day. well Dennis' friend called him last week asking him if he would be in the wedding. so now we have to go to the wedding that i wanted to avoid like the plague. am I wrong for feeling this way? I am so upset right now I am so against us going to this wedding, but I can't tell him that I don't want him in his friends wedding.
how would you feel in this position??? am I over reacting? I want everything to be a surprise for the both of us... now we're going to know what to expect. Everyone is telling me to be the bigger person and just go, and then some people are saying for just him to go. I am so torn ... I just don't know what to do. I can't get rid of this sick to my stomach feeling. I wish I didn't have to worry about this... I have enough stuff on my mind... rather than worrying about SOMEONE ELSE'S wedding.
adivce??
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how would you feel in this position??? am I over reacting? I want everything to be a surprise for the both of us... now we're going to know what to expect. Everyone is telling me to be the bigger person and just go, and then some people are saying for just him to go. I am so torn ... I just don't know what to do. I can't get rid of this sick to my stomach feeling. I wish I didn't have to worry about this... I have enough stuff on my mind... rather than worrying about SOMEONE ELSE'S wedding.
adivce??
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