Private to Mumginny_afireJune 2 2006, 04:45:33 UTC
I'm not sure that I disagree with the twins right at this moment, Mum. There isn't much to tell. I promised to meet Harry for dinner and he was late. Not a little late or even 'Dad's out in the shed' late. I mean, another hour and it would have been daybreak, late.
So, I was angry when he got home. He walked in the door and at first thought I was Malfoy then was angry when I wasn't. We got into it and, honestly, I don't remember what all was said but he did very clearly tell me that he wasn't about to tell me what was wrong. As if I didn't have the right to even ask!
And that isn't even the half of it. The last bloody row we had was over when I spent time with Severus and he made me promise to tell him everything. Everything! That it was just 'part of who he was'.
I, well, I was angry and threw out that obviously he could talk to Malfoy about it and it comes out that Malfoy kissed him at some point and he hasn't even mentioned that to me before this. That was when I threw things at him and left.
And he's been downright cruel to the twins over their dolls. Doesn't he realize the joke is on the bloody population not on him. Merlin!
I really thought that I meant something to him, Mum. That he'd trust me with things. I thought I'd grown out of being the tag-a-long to him n' Ron.
Private to GinnyweasleymamaJune 2 2006, 05:10:19 UTC
Well, that's fair bit more complicated than I figured it would be...
I'm really not sure what to say, dear. I'm sure he has his reasons for these things, but you know Harry has never really had the best judgement when he's angry.
Draco kissed him? I... Well... Um... Do you think he didn't tell you in order to spare the boy's feelings? I mean, Slytherins people don't appreciate embarrassing things that they do being spread about. Harry is friends with him now, right? Maybe he understood...well, I don't know.
Ginny, you have every right to be angry at him. But something clearly happened if he was gone until nearly day break. And if he can't tell you about it, it's probably for the best that he doesn't tell you about it.
Private to Mumginny_afireJune 2 2006, 06:26:57 UTC
How can he demand that I trust him and then turn around and not tell me about this whole kiss-nonsense. I mean, shouldn't it be a two way street?
To turn around and ask for my trust with one breath then prove he's already left out something rather important and personal in the next?
If someone had snogged me and I 'forgot to mention it' to Harry, he'd be livid and rightfully so. It should be equal and it isn't and I'm not about to crawl back and apologize when I haven't done anything wrong. I've spent my entire life chasing after Harry-bloody-Potter and I'm tired of looking the fool for it.
Private to GinnyweasleymamaJune 2 2006, 06:41:59 UTC
I'm sure he has a logic behind it, dear. Boys always do when they act hypocritical.
There's difference between snogging and a kiss. Oh, dear. No. Don't want to explain this in relation to Harry and Draco. I thought that was just a Skeeter fabrication.
You're right. He would be. And you shouldn't have to apologize for being angry, dear. He'll explain once he's able, though. I talked to him briefly. He wants to, but he just can't.
Private to Mumginny_afireJune 2 2006, 11:01:07 UTC
I imagine that he does have some sort of moldy logic somewhere, Mum. Harry isn't cruel by nature. Whenever he gets around to making time, I'm sure he'll clear up the matter.
So, I was angry when he got home. He walked in the door and at first thought I was Malfoy then was angry when I wasn't. We got into it and, honestly, I don't remember what all was said but he did very clearly tell me that he wasn't about to tell me what was wrong. As if I didn't have the right to even ask!
And that isn't even the half of it. The last bloody row we had was over when I spent time with Severus and he made me promise to tell him everything. Everything! That it was just 'part of who he was'.
I, well, I was angry and threw out that obviously he could talk to Malfoy about it and it comes out that Malfoy kissed him at some point and he hasn't even mentioned that to me before this. That was when I threw things at him and left.
And he's been downright cruel to the twins over their dolls. Doesn't he realize the joke is on the bloody population not on him. Merlin!
I really thought that I meant something to him, Mum. That he'd trust me with things. I thought I'd grown out of being the tag-a-long to him n' Ron.
I'm just so angry.
~G.
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I'm really not sure what to say, dear. I'm sure he has his reasons for these things, but you know Harry has never really had the best judgement when he's angry.
Draco kissed him? I... Well... Um... Do you think he didn't tell you in order to spare the boy's feelings? I mean, Slytherins people don't appreciate embarrassing things that they do being spread about. Harry is friends with him now, right? Maybe he understood...well, I don't know.
Ginny, you have every right to be angry at him. But something clearly happened if he was gone until nearly day break. And if he can't tell you about it, it's probably for the best that he doesn't tell you about it.
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To turn around and ask for my trust with one breath then prove he's already left out something rather important and personal in the next?
If someone had snogged me and I 'forgot to mention it' to Harry, he'd be livid and rightfully so. It should be equal and it isn't and I'm not about to crawl back and apologize when I haven't done anything wrong. I've spent my entire life chasing after Harry-bloody-Potter and I'm tired of looking the fool for it.
~G.
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There's difference between snogging and a kiss. Oh, dear. No. Don't want to explain this in relation to Harry and Draco. I thought that was just a Skeeter fabrication.
You're right. He would be. And you shouldn't have to apologize for being angry, dear. He'll explain once he's able, though. I talked to him briefly. He wants to, but he just can't.
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Bloody, arrogant wanker
I'll be fine, Mum. Really.
~G.
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